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TOPIC: I feel kinda silly asking this
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I'm really new to swinging. Like we just joined at the beginning of the month. We're going to our first off premise party in a few weeks. I'm really excited about meeting couples and possible friends. What can I expect at this type of party? It's at a Holiday Inn with rooms available at a different hotel for some reason. I'm also wondering what women wear to these kinds of things. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

Melissa

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My suggestions is go with no expectations. Go and have fun as if you are at a regular bar. Remember scoping out the guys/gals when you were single? To me, it's kind of the same thing. Just instead of finding 2 people who mesh, you are looking for 4 people to mesh.

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Thanks ladies. I have to admit that I'm nervous about what the party's going to be like. I know once I get there (and have a drink . . .or two) that I'll be fine. It's just the whole not knowing what to expect thing that's getting me. I am more excited than nervous, so that's good. lol I'm super excited to shop for my new outfit and blowing the socks off of my husband. That's going to be fun! Melissa

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Hello and Welcome! Any party not PRIVATE (in someones home or totally away from public interaction) wear what you would be comfortable being seen in PUBLIC wearing. Do remember that Meet & Greets are a "1st Impression" kind of thing and if a couple can't be bothered to wear anything other than a torn T-shirt and scruffy jeans it is a pretty safe bet that they view the world from that 'really laid-back' perspective. Dress-to-impress is NEVER WRONG. Either way, a pretty blouse with jewelry dresses up a clean pair of jeans...looks really nice and is way comfy! Its more important to Have fun!

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Sounds like a Meet N Greet, and you wear whatever you feel comfortable in. Some M&Gs or "hotel parties" people do dress for; I never was one to follow a crowd, I wear what I feel like wearing. What to expect--MINGLE, do not be a wall flower. You will meet many and have a great time. Have fun.

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Hello Millissa, Some hotel partys have a theme (biker, toga, tropical ect. ) dosen't mean you have to dress for it either, But most are dress as you feel comfortable, you wil see all kinds of different apperal from sexy to just nice plain outfits just be yourself. As far as what to expect think of it as a big reception with everyone haveing lots of fun, just get out there minggle and interduce yourselfs to others. Anything else should be brought to a room, Hope you have a great time just be yourselfs. Jean

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I'm really new to swinging. Like we just joined at the beginning of the month. We're going to our first off premise party in a few weeks. I'm really excited about meeting couples and possible friends. What can I expect at this type of party? It's at a Holiday Inn with rooms available at a different hotel for some reason. I'm also wondering what women wear to these kinds of things. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

Melissa

Lansing MI
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