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TOPIC: How can swinging spice up ur sex life

Created by: JohnandTina Original Starting post for this thread:
If you dont have a sex life. Once every 6 months isnt a sex life. He doesnt masturbate. Years ago it was my weight, I have lost 80 lbs since then. I have told him if he doesnt use it he will lose it, meaning prostate problems. Have tried sexy lingerie, him having a reg. swing partner he saw every week. Nothing seems to get him interested in me, except for the other lady telling him he was to give me attention also or he couldnt see her. After 25 yrs marriage I do know that we have gotten comfy. For the past 10 yrs it seems almost as if we are bro and sis instead of man and wife. I refuse to meet any new guys til I can get him interested in me again. Til I get a job we cant do the weekend motel thing or getaways. We do talk about this and it always ends up in an arguement. Any advice ladies?

Created by: JohnandTina
Original Starting post for this thread:

If you dont have a sex life. Once every 6 months isnt a sex life. He doesnt masturbate. Years ago it was my weight, I have lost 80 lbs since then. I have told him if he doesnt use it he will lose it, meaning prostate problems. Have tried sexy lingerie, him having a reg. swing partner he saw every week. Nothing seems to get him interested in me, except for the other lady telling him he was to give me attention also or he couldnt see her. After 25 yrs marriage I do know that we have gotten comfy. For the past 10 yrs it seems almost as if we are bro and sis instead of man and wife. I refuse to meet any new guys til I can get him interested in me again. Til I get a job we cant do the weekend motel thing or getaways. We do talk about this and it always ends up in an arguement. Any advice ladies?

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User Details are only visible to members.	In response to the OP, In my opinion (and I am NOT a trained counselor, know this) you need to both pull out of the lifestyle immediately, and seek counseling. Girl, once every 6 months is NOT in any way a sex life. Sex not only feels great, but for devoted couples it is a re-connect. No matter how good and hot fucking another man is to me, when I make love with Jay it is a spiritual re-connection. I would stop swinging, go to counseling, and decide where you need to go from there. But you deserve to be happy. Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you all for your advice. I called our ins. co. today and they said that marriage counseling is covered on our policy. I got a list of therapists that have night and weekend hours. Now all I have to do is convince him we need help. I did tell him if he wouldnt go with me, I would go by myself. Again thanks for your advice.
Lone Oak TX			Username hidden (92 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If you dont have a sex life. Once every 6 months isnt a sex life. He doesnt masturbate. Years ago it was my weight, I have lost 80 lbs since then. I have told him if he doesnt use it he will lose it, meaning prostate problems. Have tried sexy lingerie, him having a reg. swing partner he saw every week. Nothing seems to get him interested in me, except for the other lady telling him he was to give me attention also or he couldnt see her. After 25 yrs marriage I do know that we have gotten comfy. For the past 10 yrs it seems almost as if we are bro and sis instead of man and wife. I refuse to meet any new guys til I can get him interested in me again. Til I get a job we cant do the weekend motel thing or getaways. We do talk about this and it always ends up in an arguement. Any advice ladies?
Lone Oak TX			Username hidden (92 post)

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