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Created by: Latestarters Original Starting post for this thread:
We have been swinging for about one year. We both were very interested, it turns out i don't want other men to touch me. In fact I have to drink to even start, then, in turn I get angry, not at my husband, just angry I am not comfortable, then it becomes anger vented towards him. I love to see him with other women, I am a very visual person. We have gone to a club and enjoyed talking with other couples and enjoyed watching and participating, soft swing, I guess. Yet I know my husband wants to have intercourse with these ladies, and that is fine with me as long as I can watch. Although we haven't tried that, I really don't see other couples agreeing to that scenario. Please don't judge me. I am so confused and have no one to talk to about this. By the way I am bi. I have to feel some connection with a woman to have sex with her. Seems we only meet straight couples. Now I'm just rambling. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Created by: Latestarters
Original Starting post for this thread:

We have been swinging for about one year.  We both were very interested, it turns out i don't want other men to touch me.  In fact I have to drink to even start, then, in turn I get angry, not at my husband, just angry I am not comfortable, then it becomes anger vented towards him.  I love to see him with other women, I am a very visual person.  We have gone to a club and enjoyed talking with other couples and enjoyed watching and participating, soft swing, I guess.  Yet I know my husband wants to have intercourse with these ladies, and that is fine with me as long as I can watch.  Although we haven't tried that, I really don't see other couples agreeing to that scenario.   Please don't judge me.  I am so confused and have no one to talk to about this.  By the way I am bi.  I have to feel some connection with a woman to have sex with her.  Seems we only meet straight couples.  Now I'm just rambling.  Any suggestions would be appreciated.

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User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with all, you need to stick with the ladies only. I would not go with couples, since its kind of an unwritten expectation that if his wife is playing with your husband you are going to reciprocate with him. Stick with bi females. Best of luck, Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hello Latestarters. You look absolutely fantastic! Perhaps, you might not like the actual, physical contact; but you might rather like the thoughts of playing. I have found that teasing and flirting is often very good and pleasurable while the physical contact may not neccessarily be. It's not always necessary to actually sleep with someone you like. Personally, I love to be teased. It tends to open my over active imagination sometimes. I would love to get to know you, at least by email. But, you may not feel the same. I can understand that. But, your profile sounds like you two are a very real, and sensual couple. Good luck with your searches and everything. You are the kind of couple that I find exciting and real. Joseph
Newport News VA			Username hidden (141 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been swinging for about one year. We both were very interested, it turns out i don't want other men to touch me. In fact I have to drink to even start, then, in turn I get angry, not at my husband, just angry I am not comfortable, then it becomes anger vented towards him. I love to see him with other women, I am a very visual person. We have gone to a club and enjoyed talking with other couples and enjoyed watching and participating, soft swing, I guess. Yet I know my husband wants to have intercourse with these ladies, and that is fine with me as long as I can watch. Although we haven't tried that, I really don't see other couples agreeing to that scenario. Please don't judge me. I am so confused and have no one to talk to about this. By the way I am bi. I have to feel some connection with a woman to have sex with her. Seems we only meet straight couples. Now I'm just rambling. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
North Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (2 post)

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