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TOPIC: Having a FWB
Created by: Soul_Mates_42
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Soul, I am very similar to you in that I do not enjoy any type of group play, regardless of whether Mr. Frnz is involved or not. It is simply not enjoyable to me. Although we do enjoy more of a poly relationship, we have played in the past with just FWB, and will only play separately. If that is what you enjoy, and you are both comfortable with it, seek out couples looking for the same thing. Yes, there are many couples looking for same room play without any kind of connection other than sex, but we have never had a problem finding others who want to be friends first and who also enjoy separate room. Stick to what allows you to have fun! After all, that is why we are here! Good luck!

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So...my DH and I have been in the lifestyle for a couple of years now. Like many couples, we have grown and learned new things about each other and about ourselves. For me personally, I have learned I don't do well in group situations. At first we thought it was DH being with another woman and had talked about doing strictly MFM because the couple of times we had tried that, it worked amazingly well for all involved. Then we decided to try separate rooms. It was ok other than the guy I was with was having issues (I told him about Cialis). We were still concerned maybe I wasn't ready for full swap but as we talked about it, I felt perfectly fine with DH being with another woman. The light bulb moment came when we were at a house party. I had gone to a room with the host while Mr Soul had moved off with someone else. While The Host and I wherein the room alone, things were going well. It wasn't until another couple joined us on the bed that it went downhill for me. I could no longer focus on my own partner and was very distracted by the other couple. A short while later, the hostess joined us, followed by Mr Soul. Mr Soul took one look at me and pulled me to another room. He said no one else knows what that funny little smile means but he does. He sad its me saying "WTF just happened here and how the hell do I get out?!" lol So...after much more talking we have come to realize that the situations that work best for me are the MFM ...or...the ones where I have formed an intimate connection to a male and it's just the two if us.

I'm curious if anyone else has encountered this? Does the fem in your group have a FWB? If so, how do you distinguish what you have from polyamory? I look forward to your responses!

Mrs Soul

Palm Bay FL
 
 
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TOPIC: Having a FWB