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We have had 5 different guys for MFM and all have been cut, and all just take forever to cum. I love a good fuck and giving a nice BJ but why do guys think a lady wants to be pounded for ever because they cant cum. They all brag about it in there profiles, "can go all night" well i prefer to have a few loads of spunk over me than get pounded into the ground. Do american ladies like it or do you just have to get use to guys who cant climax. Life is different on the other side of the pond.

Created by: thrust6969
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We have had 5 different guys for MFM and all have been cut, and all just take forever to cum. I love a good fuck and giving a nice BJ but why do guys think a lady wants to be pounded for ever because they cant cum. They all brag about it in there profiles, "can go all night" well i prefer to have a few loads of spunk over me than get pounded into the ground.
Do american ladies like it or do you just have to get use to guys who cant climax.
Life is different on the other side of the pond.

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User Details are only visible to members.	we have run into this in the past to. If she starts reaching for the lube then it has lasted to long and she is just plain starting to get bored with him. He wont be invited back
Shelbyville MI			Username hidden (61 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There is a window of time that is long enough to be satisfied but not so long I'm sore the next day or clock-watching. I prefer guys who shoot quicker but can recharge more enjoyable than the energizer bunny
Albany NY			Username hidden (29 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No, I (speaking just for myself, as I don't know what other women think) like a guy to last a while. BUT, that said, yes it can go on for too long. Most of the guys I've been with mix it up. If the actual intercourse part is taking too long, we switch positions, or take a break and just handle manually or orally, then get back into it. Yes, a good build up is steamy. Just simply thrusting in and out in the same rhythm for too long gets tedious and frustrating. or it can. But, there is also a place for a good fuck that lasts only a few minutes until the guy explodes. I personally like a nice slower build up and a few orgasms before penetration. If I want you to just give it to me and fuck me, I will tell you in some way. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6002 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi all! My wife would trade you for the guys that take awhile to cum. Most of the guys she has played with get off in 10 minutes and yes she would like a bit more fucking than that. Is that what most women want 10 to 15 minutes?
Terre Haute IN			Username hidden (10 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Carrie, maybe that's what mine is thinking too, b/c he's similar in that.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6002 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That's my strategy, too. I don't want to sit around waiting for everyone else to finish up.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2787 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There are a lot of times my hubby won't come with the other girl because he wants to ensure that I am the last person he is with. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16494 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forums Walker. And yes communication is key.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13963 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I know my husband is one of those that takes a long time to cum. We have talked about it and for him it's not a matter of intentionally holding out, but he does want the girl to get off first. So, we just have the talk with the girl/couple before hand about "open communication sex". If you get to the point your done, and waiting on him. Just ask him to cum for you. He always says there is nothing hotter then me begging him to cum. If you hit the point your "pounded into the ground" then tell him your done and let me take over or switch to oral. I know sometimes I have to use oral/my breast to finish if I am done, he doesn't mind. This one, for us at lest, goes back to the stand by phrase of swingers everywhere. Talk about what you want and keep communication open, even during sex.
Herrin IL			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	After much hot, awesome prolonged sex play on Saturday night with swing friends who are also just true friends as well, it was 5;00 AM before they got home and any of us got to bed to actually sleep. So... Hubby and I woke up about 9:30 AM (housekeeping woke us up and we told them to come back later), and he was rock hard. He started some foreplay, and I told him, "no, I just want you inside me...I've had a whole night and day of foreplay with our friends," so he fucked my brains out and came within probably 10 minutes. It was perfect. The prolonged sex play the night before, plus all the flirting and innuendo that had been going on for...okay, actually a few YEARS, then the quickie sex that morning with just my husband...both are awesome. I will say that most swinger men, in our experience, hold off with their swing partners, and focus on the women's pleasure the most. They're having a good time, we're having a good time, etc. Women have a quick recoup time after orgasm(s), so a man will hold off and give her bunches, if that's an option. the build up is excruciatingly pleasurable. But yes, sometimes we just want that cock inside us NOW, and nothing else will do. Gina
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