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User Details are only visible to members.	Hi kd! We must talk!
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User Details are only visible to members.	How funny I popped in here just now, I'm having a damn hot flash as we speak! lol! @2htorodandsue, I'm still in the discussion and research process of HRT and finally found a reputable Dr that specializes in it. There really is a lot to know before making this decision, and I know 'properly' balanced hormones can be amazing for MANY different symptoms!! Definitely check out that thread Low T (and there was some other great ones too, if I remember what they are I'll let you know.) Do keep in mind that ...you need to find out first -if and what hormones may be unbalanced -before they can be balanced. Welcome to the forums! :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Sue, They worked for my energy level and night sweats. Look at the men's forum under low T. Some women have posted there. You can get more info.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Dragon I noticed you said hormone replacements do they really work? I have been having the hot flashes myself already
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User Details are only visible to members.	soft touches, listening to her, and hugs is the way to a woman's desires.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I am so bad about doing my research of posts! I was thinking about this after I posted last and knew I never looked at his/their profile and was going to. I guess the OP is way too busy looking for strange than being busy making his wife feel intimately loved, adored, desired etc etc... And he wonders why she has no interest! Classic! Well, that answers that. smbandit, cheating will not bring you your wish.
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User Details are only visible to members.	it seems to me that he has already given up on her since he has a single male profile on here.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Yes, that is what I think also. Sometimes, well, I want to say men, but I'm sure it goes both ways, ...sometimes we forget that 'needs' may change. And sometimes we get stuck in expecting the old ways to always work!! In our relationship, I think my needs have changed way more than my husbands. And although I do think it's up to me to tell him (or teach him) what these new things are, I also do expect my husband to catch on and ask or talk about it if he doesn't really know. I think if anyone in the OP position is really interested in their sex life changing, then he has to accept that he has to change his ways too. And he needs to find out what they are if he has missed the clues. Again, like I said in my last post, if she hasn't written off sex completely, the only way to get there is to be open to change and do different things. If my husband was ...just being busy 'wishing' I was like I was, 24 years ago, he'd be wishing a long time... lol. I wonder smbandit if you've been hearing her, and if you haven't, just do so now. I'm also wondering how well swinging is going for both of you???? That must be tricky since she's "not that into sex!" ????
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User Details are only visible to members.	I think the OP doesn't realize the mental attraction needed to be physically attracted. Having two teens to deal with might be exhausting her, especially if she bears the majority of the parenting. Instead of blaming the wife for being unspontaneous, maybe he should focus his question on what HE is doing or not doing to spark that attraction and sexuality. he will most likely reply that that was his intention in the OP, but by putting the focus on her and what he deems is HER problem instead of THEIR problem, that tells me a lot about his intent. Mr. told me long ago that when one of has any sort of problem it is OURS to fix, not just mine or his. My involvement in the forums comes and goes with my interests. Right now I'm enjoying it again. Next couple weeks, I have other things I need to write and accomplish, so might not be on as often or as lengthily...ha, now there's a word.
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User Details are only visible to members.	aw, that was sweet Gina. How have you been? Ever since Sandy and we lost power for so long, I learned how addicted I was to my computer and it bothered me. So I vowed to not spend endless hours on it anymore and try to be more present in my actual day. I do visit here to see if everyone is well from time to time, but its hard not to get caught up for too long if I visit all the threads! I am always happy to see you charming people when I visit though.... Hope you're doing well. :) What do you think about this gentleman's problem?
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