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I think the OP doesn't realize the mental attraction needed to be physically attracted. Having two teens to deal with might be exhausting her, especially if she bears the majority of the parenting. Instead of blaming the wife for being unspontaneous, maybe he should focus his question on what HE is doing or not doing to spark that attraction and sexuality. he will most likely reply that that was his intention in the OP, but by putting the focus on her and what he deems is HER problem instead of THEIR problem, that tells me a lot about his intent.

Mr. told me long ago that when one of has any sort of problem it is OURS to fix, not just mine or his.

My involvement in the forums comes and goes with my interests. Right now I'm enjoying it again. Next couple weeks, I have other things I need to write and accomplish, so might not be on as often or as lengthily...ha, now there's a word.

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I've missed you, KindDragon.

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Husband here

It is not only women that lose interest in sex. There was a time I didn't want to have anything to do with it. Luckily I had a wife that was understanding. Maybe you just need to talk with her and let her know how you feel and don't sneak around looking for it.

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i am going to go out on a limb here and guess that having a single male profile on a swing sight is not going to help your situation.

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You probably need to ask her.....

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One real start would be honesty.

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I'm a 53 year old male that still has a strong sex drive. My wife is 64 and is not that interested in sex. We have 2 adopted kids 12 and 15 and they keep us busy. We do not have much time together alone. Wish there was some way I could get her to be more spontaneous and playful like in the younger days. Any help from you ladies would be appreciated.

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