I would like to put in a little input from the Male point. Myself I do have a hard time getting it up and keeping it up! this usually happens when we are at a house party! must have something to do with where we are at. This doesn't happen at all parties,but, even if it does my tongue and hands will bring the lady Im with to multiple orgasms. I love to stick my tongue in a sweet pussy! now when we invite people to our home for a evening of adult fun,i don't seem to have the same issue. But then I have learned about the pill to help out. It usually takes care of the issue! The other issue is cumming! i usually go for a couple days without ejaculating! I do cumm but in a different way! I have all the feelings of cumming without squirting it out! but when I do, my wife tells me that there is nothing like it! issue could be that we have sex At least once daily and sometimes more!

Along the same line.....what do you do when with a couple and he has trouble staying hard? Join the others for a FMF...don't want to be insensitive, but any suggestions? Yes join the other couple . I sometimes focus on Mr Sav for a few minutes and hope he plays with his wife for a bit. Sometimes a few minutes back with your own partners get things going again.spouses are much better at knowing what buttons to push, there is a level of comfort that isn't possible with a stranger especially a new one. I know on the rare occasion Mr Sav might be struggling with a new women he appreciates me jumping in and helping get things going again, when things are "working" again I slip away back to her husband.If I notice he is still having difficulty I take his hand and place it on his wife, encouraging him to touch her .....that generally helps and takes the pressure off him to preform for me. generally we are both rewarded by this and can get back to it lol Mrs Sav

Along the same line.....what do you do when with a couple and he has trouble staying hard? Join the others for a FMF...don't want to be insensitive, but any suggestions?

that doesn't work so well for us straight girls ;^)

PG

as we know the male half doesn't always work so the nice thing about a ff play is it still lets the ladies play while the male can still do other things. we have played all night with out the male part and the male and all of us was just as tired.

I am bragging. My woman has multiple Os and if anyone is immature enough to lump my sexuality into ONE category and give me a "character" obsessed with his own cock. I am not. I am OBSESSED with pleasing A WOMAN. ok now I will chill. I do things with her like arch my back so she can reach her clit, sometimes I do it doggie so I do all the work and play with her clit. If I really feel dexterous that day I will stand up and fuck her, while playing with one breast kissing her neck , pulling her hair and breathing in her ear and touching her clit. omg thats fun!! I love my woman... err sorry I digress. Just be cool , ok., I have feelings , and worked really hard on performance anxiety. My gal has had 4 3soms and has stepped out many times. I dont go out and Ihave never had a ffm. o well. I love her. I would do anything for her. PLease dont do this. I cannot tell you how much people gp through when you just dont even take the time to listen. I love too, Just like a pussy , just like a woman, Are you all just cumbuckets for me? Do you TRULY want to be only that??

nope can not relate. I enjoy playing with the whole package all night.

if I don't think about a hard on I can keep it, if I think about it, bye,bye,it gone,and sometimes I just can't get off,sometimes I just don't care if I do or not it was still good,and it is ok,I still enjoy it. yes I did, yes I am ,yes I will,just bring it on and see what happens,when it blows it might take you and me and we will send somebody to get help just to hold it still or it will just lay there real still and we will wonder if it will ever work again,of coures we will have to give it mouth to head, to see if we can revile it..not to worry there are other thing we can do,I am sure I can think of something,Leetttmmmeeeessseeeee

Gina

You lucky girl, you! I only wish I could orgasm without the clit. But, hey, I learned to stop complaining once I learned to come multiple times!

LOVE the arm thing! I am soooooooooo sensitive just below the deltoid. Perfect way to get me aroused. Hmmmm, when men focus on the WHOLE woman and not just the genitals, wow, what a difference!

hahaha that's a great post...I'm with you pretty much on the sex toys, I like them for clit purposes more than to be rammed with, unless you're pretty expert at it (I like toys being used ON me, in addition to using them myself). If a guy uses his cock to tease my clit, to move it around my vaginal opening, to insert, and playfully tease, then to read my body well, and know that rhythm that amazes and satisfies me, rather than just in out in out in out in the same rhythm, well then...whew! And then sometimes, just a quick "up against the wall slut" thing will work too. I like variety. There is always one amazingly hot, firery orgasm I have though, and it's attention to the clit, in a circular motion, that does that for me. BUT, I've been known to orgasm through touch on my arm, above the elbow (my devious husband has done this to me in line at the grocery store), the backs of my knees, my breasts, my neck, you get the idea. I can't say my husband has ever orgasmed by having his neck nibbled on, but he will get aroused in numerous manners. Gina