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User Details are only visible to members.	Both paid and free members. I'd we get about 1 a month from a dumbass asking to see "more" with no photos to show. The last was from a paid "couple"who wrote and said something to the effect of "we "think" we find you attractive but aren't sure. Will you open your gallery so we can see more?'" Now I do understand that before anyone can determine if they're genuinely attracted they need to see faces but seriously you've got a lot of audacity to ask for "more" when you have none. They did mention they'd be happy to open some pictures once they saw "more" of us. HUGE NO NO. Never ever ask to see someones photos without opening your own FIRST. Soooo not Cool. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4078 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If you get really good ones, please feel free to share them in the "Submit the best lines from your favorite e-mails on SLS" in the "Games" thread :) That thread should be a mandatory read for many, lol.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree, I think it's important to keep a sense of humor about all crazy emails and things people say/write.
Scottsdale AZ			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@live - We don't get too many emails like that, but yes, we have gotten emails like that from Paid members here. Yucko. But they're pretty funny. Hubby and I get a good laugh from them.
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I also hate first emails from people that within the first 2 sentences insist on us opening ALL of our galleries for them, especially ones of "the female in action". (Yes! Someone actually just said that to us!!) But THEY only have 1 or 2 pix, of the woman only, in their public gallery. Emails like that get the very impersonal response of "No thank you. We are not interested." We much prefer emails that are light, humorous and invite us to get to know the other couple.
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I also hate first emails that right away ask to see pssy pix. Yuck...next! I REFUSE* to post any pix like that, here on SLS or on other sites." I'm with you there, class over trash. Subtle over graphic.It's even more annoying when those requests come from someone who has no photos. I'm like SERIOUSLY?? You're kidding RIGHT? Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4078 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	First off, I like it when the emails are longer than 1 or 2 sentences and that don't include the phrase "your wife is hot". I much prefer getting an email with proper spelling, grammar and punctuation. And that the person/couple has taken the time to actually read our profile and thoughtfully comment on something we've written. I also hate first emails that right away ask to see pssy pix. Yuck...next! I REFUSE* to post any pix like that, here on SLS or on other sites.
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We get a lot of emails about our profile and quite a few about my postings in the forums. I took a lot of time writing our profile, it is as accurate description of us and one can get minus all the bullshit. To enjoy our profile means you "get it" and get us. I could not possibly care less how much you liked our photos, like me as a person, appreciate my humor, respect my preferences and share something of yourself either in email or via profile that shows me we in all probability will get along great. Sadly some of the best emails I've received come from my forums posts from people who are so far away the chances of ever meeting are next to nil. Such a pity too because if they are writing specifically based on my forum comments clearly we share the same mindset on my topics. Liking my photos is a nice compliment but liking ME is a whole other form of flattery. And seriously if they're writing us what can they possibly say about our photos? Whether it is true or not is another matter , you can't very well tell someone you're writing because you like their profile but that their photos really don't spark any interest. They have no choice but to be nice and complimentary, which is it has so little bearing on my impression of the writer. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4078 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I like e-mails that are written just for me. I want to know that sender took their time to read my profile and they want to make a connection with me. If they reference to something in my profile and make a good punch line out of it, it is only for the better! I like to see that the sender gets a little personal and opens up to me. I don't need to know their life stories, but I have to have the vibe, that they are genuinely interested in me as a person with individual and unique personality. All this is hard to confine in two lines, so yes, I do like long e-mails. These "like your profile, we have things in common, let's meet for drinks" e-mails do nothing for me. If you don't tell me what we might have in common, then I doubt we have anything in common. Of course, I like my e-mails to be composed using proper language, spelling and punctuation. That tells me that the sender cares, and that just may translate into attention to details in the bedroom as well. My preferences for initial contact are mentioned in my profile. It is amazing how many people seem to completely miss that part, lol.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I thought this would be easy to respond to but it's not. It's a great question especially since we're so new. We get emails that say "we like your profile and have a lot in common. Check us out and let us know if you want to meet." To me that says all they did was look at photos. I would rather them tell me what they think we have in common and why. Tell me what in our profile made a connection with you. If they inject a little humor and humility into the email, all the better. What I really like and maybe this isn't the real point of the thread, but I've gotten some nice emails from people all over the country about my references to ice cream sundaes and especially the ice wine. My forum posts about hormones have given me the opportunity to meet (online) some great people I wouldn't probably have otherwise.
Scottsdale AZ			Username hidden (150 post)

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