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Ladies, We talk about first emails we don't like often enough, but what is it that ~you like to read in first emails, that would turn you on or make you think 'hey, I think I like this person'? Or, 'Oh.... this person is exciting me a little!' ;) When meeting in person, there's so much more to be attracted (or not) to, but in first emails, if you like their profile, like their pics, ...what do you need to hear? And how do you like they say it? Even if it's short, do you like to hear a 'certain kind' of compliment, ...what kind? Is it just that you know they actually read your profile and you'll find out more when you meet? Do you just need to see some level of intelligence, or do you need not may words at all, ...pic and profile is enough to make a date? I recently received a really nice initial email. Polite and basically asking me to check out his profile. I did, handsome as hell, intelligent profile, attractive personality to me ...and know he read our whole profile! Opened our pics, and 2 back and forth short emails later, with him saying he 'was interested' ...no compliment. Not one. So I asked for one! lol. And it was lame. so lame! wtf?! I now know I need a 'certain kind' of compliment. lol. Wondering what you need to hear or feel...

Created by: kinddraggon
Original Starting post for this thread:

Ladies, We talk about first emails we don't like often enough, but what is it that ~you like to read in first emails, that would turn you on or make you think 'hey, I think I like this person'? Or, 'Oh.... this person is exciting me a little!' ;)

When meeting in person, there's so much more to be attracted (or not) to, but in first emails, if you like their profile, like their pics, ...what do you need to hear? And how do you like they say it?

Even if it's short, do you like to hear a 'certain kind' of compliment, ...what kind? Is it just that you know they actually read your profile and you'll find out more when you meet? Do you just need to see some level of intelligence, or do you need not may words at all, ...pic and profile is enough to make a date?

I recently received a really nice initial email. Polite and basically asking me to check out his profile. I did, handsome as hell, intelligent profile, attractive personality to me ...and know he read our whole profile!  Opened our pics, and 2 back and forth short emails later, with him saying he 'was interested' ...no compliment. Not one. So I asked for one! lol. And it was lame. so lame! wtf?! 

I now know I need a 'certain kind' of compliment. lol. Wondering what you need to hear or feel...

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User Details are only visible to members.	For me, first emails that treat me like an intelligent woman excite me. An email that says something like "wow, nice nipples...I'd love to suck them. Email me"...will get deleted. I enjoy compliments like the next girl. But I enjoy sincere, thought out compliments vs. ones you hand out to everyone. If I can see your wit and intelligence in your email you will get a reply, even if it is thank you, I appreciate it. If you catch my attention and intrigue me I will definately email back and keep the dialogue going. Despite myself, I love the smart ass. Its like a flibbin cat with a furry ball with me hahaha. And I am a sucker for a handsome face.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	livewire, you should write back to that guy and tell him, "yu ned to tak an anatome lesen and get bac to us" I do have to admit that pic makes me wonder if the Mr. is working his way up or down since there appear to be great treasures (and pleasures) in both directions....
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11413 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Kind, you mentioned enjoying compliments. I'm the opposite. I don't like it when the guys start in on the "you're so sexy" or "great tits" or "you're beautiful" remarks. It just immediately strikes me as bullshit. " oh shoot, did I forget to say a 'genuine' compliment!! lol. That is what I meant. The above is bullshit to me as well.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sadly, its rare that a first email excites me but I must say that it has happened. I like emails that not only demonstrate that he's read my profile but also show that he's smart and funny. I'm also more attracted to emails that tell me about who he is than ones that immediately jump in to "sex" talk. Kind, you mentioned enjoying compliments. I'm the opposite. I don't like it when the guys start in on the "you're so sexy" or "great tits" or "you're beautiful" remarks. It just immediately strikes me as bullshit. Like I usually point out to them, at best they know I have pretty bras. I remind them I could look like a troll. Seriously, I do. LOL. I'll usually say " a troll with pretty bras but still a troll." I'm not saying that I'm not flattered when they finally get to see my face and do think I'm attractive but I'll take one genuine compliment over 1000 comments from a horny man willing to say anything to meet me.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (4121 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lol! Yes I do know that by now... and thank you for your answer. lmao... I actually had the freakin sweetest chat with a very handsome SM yesterday. I never answer my chat, but I do look at the profile sometimes before I decline and decided to accept. Hoping to set up something for when we get back to Florida, so I don't mind a few emails until then. Mrs. Sav, I saw you said (not sure here or a different thread) you learned not to get excited before you meet. I do agree and I think that's wise. I am not excited!! Everyone, disregard this OP. LOL
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	KIND, You know we're a bunch of rebels and sidetracking forums is secret pleasure lol......to answer your question VERY RARELY lol Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4443 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sorry people, but your email complaints are in the wrong thread! lmao.... Doesn't anyone get any good emails that make you think ~you might like the person and ~oooh, this may work out verrry nicely???? :-o I also didn't see there was a thread about this already ...that one didn't go over so well either. lol!!! carry on.... there are some pretty funny bad ones here. :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it is funny that most people assume if you have locked galleries there is something wicked and naughty in there. That isn't the case for us at all and simply never will be. How disappointed they'd be if I bothered to open them lol. We don't even take photos like that or even allow photos like that to be taken. Fun, playful, sexy and subtle ! You want porn buy some trashy magazines, if you're turned on by an 8 x 10 glossy of a close up shot of a vagina we clearly have nothing in common. Move along, nothing to see here! Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4443 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@totalbabe - I will! I should go and find that email where the guy asked to see "pix of the female in action". That was hilarious! Like I was a show horse or something!! :)
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (449 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@greeneyes - Totally! The crazy things people do and say keep hubby and me laughing.
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (449 post)

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