Female Version of One and Done: Swingers Discussion 2102371041

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User Details are only visible to members.	Extreme mirth and laughter along with a certain level(high) of inebriation have been known to really loosen me up enough to squirt / multi on a few occasions. It's just too bad I never remember the actual sequence of which buttons were pressed to repeat it. Note to self - set up videotape before next drinking night with "friends":)
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2727 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PS, I will also orgasm if I've been laughing a lot first, and if my husband is around when someone else is going at it with me. It's the proximity of him and his commanding-ness that can certainly get me over any edge. And sometimes? I just want to make someone else orgasm. G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6029 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A lot of it is certainly letting go of your thoughts. And that's hard to do in a swing situation most times. A lot is going on, you're thinking of the other person, viewing your spouse with someone else, etc etc (Akron, I've ALWAYS abbreviated that correctly!). If I don't orgasm with someone new pretty soon after we're playing around, then it may not happen at all. Doesn't mean I'm not having a good time, just means maybe I'll take the focus off myself and be of more, er, service. I don't worry about it. I know that later on, Mr will blow my mind, so to speak, as he is the one I will always respond to most and best and most intensely. the comparisons will drive you crazy. I think there are prob a LOT more women who do NOT orgasm, especially in a swing situation, but they don't post b/c of those feelings you describe so well in your OP. Just have fun, don't think so much, and enjoy yourself. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6029 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LWC - I think you said it best comparing it to the male version of size and/or duration ability. If you're all having a good time, that's what's important. I've never had a scoreboard or checksheet. And I know what I've got is what I've got and it does what it can. As long as we are all having a good time, that's what matters. Think less, do more!
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am multi orgasmic, but nothing like I'm reading in these fora from MANY women, who claim to literally orgasm like a machine. The multi orgasms are with my husband, and only one other male (Married, plays with me, hubby is not a match with his wife). I can generally reach 3-5 orgasms in a fuck session. Which tends to leave me wiped. Afterward, all that I want is to be left alone so that I can roll over and pass out ;).
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12245 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Beautifully said Ms. TotalBabe! :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I believe there are women at every point of the orgasm spectrum in the swinging community. What truly matters is that you are enjoying the experience and that you communicate with your partner(s). I once engaged in a couple swap where we knew she rarely orgasmed. We went in to this comfortable with the situation but it quickly became uncomfortable as she was clearly annoyed that I am multi-orgasmic. She would make angry sounds and I even caught her glaring at me! It was awkward and strange. Needless to say, we never met them again. On a separate note, I have found that as I had more experience and became more comfortable that I orgasmed with a greater frequency and had a variety if types of orgasms.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (4060 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LWC - you're welcome :) I want to say, maybe not the norm, but definitely a lot of women say, they are multi-orgasmic. Myself included. I wonder, if it has anything to do with letting go of any mental confinement and preconceived societal expectations and opinions, allowing yourself to enjoy every single aspect of your sexuality, including sharing yourself with others for mutual pleasure? LWC, interestingly, I joined the multi-orgasmic ranks only after I had stopped smoking; almost like nicotine was blocking my pleasure center. Now, not only am I healthier, but my enjoyment of sex is indescribable, haha. However, I DO NOT squirt. Or is it pee...? Anyway, while I am sure may women are multi-orgasmic, I am sure there are many that are not, we just don't really hear from them here in the fora. And while you might wonder about multi-orgasmic female sex machines, let me tell you, I myself want to see a woman that can really orgasm like crazy all night long! Me, I get really, really exhausted, and it does not take that long. Oh, sleep is so blissful then! Lol. What I am saying is, all this orgasming really tires me out after a while. And please, do not think even for one second, that you are not up to some imaginary swinging standards! In my opinion, this is supposed to be fun for everyone, and having fun includes letting your individual sexuality shine through. If every woman were multi-orgasmic, it would become boring really soon.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1930 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	TB- great new use of LOL. I'll be using it to refer to Nic's spreadsheet from now on.. lol ( the laughing one) NaughtyandNice- so are you saying the multi-orgasmic female is the "norm"?
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (907 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs. Naughty is very hard to get the first orgasm going. But after that watch out they come(no pun intended) fast and furious. Funny thing is she has yet to find a playmate to give her a orgasm at all. I usually have to step in because i know her buttons very well. She does not mind though as the foreplay is fun for her. I usually play with her after our playmates are done and gone to help make her night complete.
Delta PA			Username hidden (124 post)

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