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Got myself of virgin poster! Another really awesome lubricant is "Astroglide". It is water based and feels like the real thing - wet wise. I just love it, when I need it. LOL

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In my case i went through menopause young, early 40s. Although i did experience some dryness during, everything seems ro be back to normal. During I used herbal remedies to treat the symptoms. It's best to consult your doctor about any herbs you may take. When you are finished life is wonderful no more cycles no more birthcontrol. My sympathies to your sigificant other. smoothwaitresstampa

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Hey,

I have come across a wonderful new product called "NUO". I was introduced to this by a friend. I too am experiencing dryness because I am going through peri-menopause and started early at the ripe age of 40. At first this product took me by surprise because it had a real cooling/sort of cold affect when I applied it directly to the clitoris. I wouldn't say it was the best feeling, but I continued to use it over time and its since become my best friend, if you know what I mean. Talk about lubrication. It really helps tremenously in that area--I no longer experience painful penetration. You want to know the added benefit, my husband started to use this in lieu of viagra because of too many side effects and WOW it works on him as well. The company who sells this is called NuVANTE, so if you want to read more about it or order it just go to the company. Mrs TuxedoMask

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"there is nothing to prove when we are finished. Any suggestions-my thoughts are just lubricating myself with "flavors" but that seems like I am cheating my partner out of what he is looking for. "

Sounds stressful. Kind of like when a guy is trying to get an erection. If you use lube you won't be cheating him out of anything. Hmm kind of like those of us that can't/don't squirt. Could you imagine having a guy trying to make you squirt? I think as long as you both enjoy yourselves you don't need evidence.

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Immediate relief: Try Replens or another long acting lube.

You can also use a vaginal applicator to inject some K-Y type stuff. Anything is better than raw meat...anything.

I also suggest getting a young girl friend. Her cycling is delaying my decent.

Mischief (1/2 way there)

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If you look to replenish your hormonal balance look into estroven.. Its an herbal plant estrogen extract. You can get it in any vitamin isle.

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I have read a lot about "bio-identical hormone" replacement and when the time comes.... thats the way I'm going. No doubt about it.

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PT-141 is still in the FDA investigational trial stage. It is a male erectile dysfunction drug that will apparantly have off-label use for women in the future. If approved, it will require a medical prescription here in the States. Meanwhile, as you are peri-menopausal, try going to a physician who specializes in bio-identical hormone replacement. It will only take a few weeks until your natural lubrication returns!

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Welcome Pepper, and unfortunately, you will only be cheating yourself if you don't lubricate if you are experiencing dryness due to pre-menopause. I began (and luckily have only experienced dryness on a few occasions), but would prefer lubrication to raw meat, that is the sad reality of it.

Jan

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look up Valentra .

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