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TOPIC: Did you meet your partner-spouse-SO in the lifestyle

Created by: Menage_a_Trois Original Starting post for this thread:
After watching Swingtown last week and the part where they showed Susan & Bruce "reconnecting" the morning after it got me to thinking........ Has anyone who met their partner/spouse or SO in the lifestyle and is currently doing the lifestyle together really ever experienced that level of "euphoria" that most couples who have been together a significant amount of time prior to doing the lifestyle seem to experience? Just curious as to what others have experienced in similar situations........ Thanks.

Created by: Menage_a_Trois
Original Starting post for this thread:

After watching Swingtown last week and the part where they showed Susan & Bruce "reconnecting" the morning after it got me to thinking........

Has anyone who met their partner/spouse or SO in the lifestyle and is currently doing the lifestyle together really ever experienced that level of "euphoria" that most couples who have been together a significant amount of time prior to doing the lifestyle seem to experience?

Just curious as to what others have experienced in similar situations........

Thanks.

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User Details are only visible to members.	"I felt like "regular ass" wasn't exciting enough to warrant him staying awake." It's not that. You are still young. I suggest he would have probably wanted to say home if not for the idea of a FMF. Since it's every man's fantasy, I'm sure he was worked up. Here's the way I would look at his falling asleep. He is comfortable enough in your relationship that he doesn't need to perform on demand. He knows you are an understanding, caring, partner. He believes that you would prefer taking care of him by letting him sleep than demanding sex when he's exhausted. The other situation is a MUST perform. No choice. With you he has choices, you as a caring partner know his needs were better served by letting him sleep. My gf used to insist on sex when I was exhausted. I'm sure if we had been in a play situation, I may have been more awake. She never understood why I couldn't always just summon the energy to play. Well, I used to fall asleep on her crotch. She would jar my head to wake me. Things have changed. She's now older (32), working harder, and full time. Guess who is too tired for sex?? smile. I totally understand her exhaustion. Now we are on the same page. Sometimes we will both take a nap before awaking in the middle of the night to have sex. That works. So it doesn't have the negative meaning that you don't matter, sexually. You matter much more than that piece of strange. It's actually a positive. He can be himself around you. That's a much higher compliment. Besides you can always wake him after a couple of hours with some well placed licks on his penis. Smile, It merely means getting older. Mishchief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yes, I met both Hubby (24 years) and my gf (8 years) at a sex party and in a swing club. Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ok - maybe I'm not explaining it right..........not just where there was alot to talk about but where the sex between you two the next morning was taken to a whole new level............ Just seem to be something only shared by long term couples who were together PRIOR swinging and when they swing they experience a heighted since of sex with each other......
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User Details are only visible to members.	oh, and yeah, we've had those morning were you're laughing about the nights activities.
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User Details are only visible to members.	nope. she was in the lifestyle.... i was a good catholic boy until i met her.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	After watching Swingtown last week and the part where they showed Susan & Bruce "reconnecting" the morning after it got me to thinking........ Has anyone who met their partner/spouse or SO in the lifestyle and is currently doing the lifestyle together really ever experienced that level of "euphoria" that most couples who have been together a significant amount of time prior to doing the lifestyle seem to experience? Just curious as to what others have experienced in similar situations........ Thanks.
Chandler AZ			Username hidden (13 post)

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