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TOPIC: Advice for the Fellatio-Impaired

Created by: atlmilf Original Starting post for this thread:
I need some help! I've been with my husband for over 20 years now, and I've almost never been able to get him off orally. I hardly even try anymore, because we both know the results. Nice foreplay, but never good enough to send him over the edge. He's tried guiding me the best he can, but even he admits he can't quite put his finger on what what I'm missing. He's been with women that were quite good, and others who weren't , so we've come to the conclusion that it's simply a gift that some women posess, and others don't. At a house party a couple of months ago, however, I was successful in my endeavor with one gentleman, so we know I CAN do it! Then, last month at another party, a beautiful, buxom woman (his favorite) laid him back on a couch and went down on him for only a few minutes and he came like crazy, so we know HE can still get off like that! Still, he's not sure if it was her talent alone (he did praise her highly), or the fact that he was watching me get tag-teamed by a nice young couple nearby. I'd love to learn how to give a really nice blowjob. I'm fairly confident in all other aspects of our sex life, and do more than most women I talk to, but this just eludes me. He's over 9" long and quite thick, so I can only get so much in my mouth. Linda Lovelace, I'm not. Surely there's a video, a website, or a book that can help me with my technique. If miss buxom beauty is at the next party, I'm going to watch very closely and take notes, but until then I'm asking for suggestions. Thanks, J.

Created by: atlmilf
Original Starting post for this thread:

I need some help!

I've been with my husband for over 20 years now, and I've almost never been able to get him off orally.  I hardly even try anymore, because we both know the results.  Nice foreplay, but never good enough to send him over the edge.

He's tried guiding me the best he can, but even he admits he can't quite put his finger on what what I'm missing.  He's been with women that were quite good, and others who weren't , so we've come to the conclusion that it's simply a gift that some women posess, and others don't.

At a house party a couple of months ago, however, I was successful in my endeavor with one gentleman, so we know I CAN do it!

Then, last month at another party, a beautiful, buxom woman (his favorite) laid him back on a couch and went down on him for only a few minutes and he came like crazy, so we know HE can still get off like that!

Still, he's not sure if it was her talent alone (he did praise her highly), or the fact that he was watching me get tag-teamed by a nice young couple nearby.

I'd love to learn how to give a really nice blowjob.  I'm fairly confident in all other aspects of our sex life, and do more than most women I talk to, but this just eludes me.  He's over 9" long and quite thick, so I can only get so much in my mouth.  Linda Lovelace, I'm not.

Surely there's a video, a website, or a book that can help me with my technique.

If miss buxom beauty is at the next party, I'm going to watch very closely and take notes, but until then I'm asking for suggestions.

Thanks,

J.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Penny, Yea, but throw a strap-on in there and that changes everything. ;) Carrie
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User Details are only visible to members.	I feel your pain.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I guess we're just too connected work wise. Bacchus has always carried a gun professionally. Although I think he looks hot with it, in bed it wouldn't get me going anymore than a phoropter would him. The handcuffs though.....that's a different story.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Thrills... I can see I need to work on the strength of my imagination.....
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User Details are only visible to members.	Damn! With all the talk of pistol fucking, there's no way ANY amount of fellatio, impaired or otherwise, would get me up! Jim
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User Details are only visible to members.	I find this pistol fucking topic absolutely fasinating. Obviously its something that is a huge turn on for some. I would have to guess this would be a fantasy that either is reaaaaally hot for you or reaaaaally not for you because of the nature of the act. I have never thought of this being a fantasy and I'm trying to sort out as to whether I would find it hot.... I guess if I have to think about it that long then I must be one that is a "not". However, I think knowing that the gun was just a piece of metal and not loaded would do nothing to excite me...... however maybe if it was a situation like M. and I thought it was loaded (when it really wasn't) then that might have a effect...IF I could get the worry out of my mind long enough to enjoy it...LOL! M.... how the hell do you get the worry of it being loaded out of your mind long enough to "enjoy" the power play.......Very interesting.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Colleen, you know I love ya to death. However, considering safeties can be switched off in a big moment of O and you have kids..... please remove the clip or ammo out of the cylinder as well. Hopefully the illusion still gives you the big bang.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Oh alright, Poly, quit bitchin! I'll make the sacrifice and be your first! Jim (always sacrificing for others)
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User Details are only visible to members.	How many times have you ladies had gentlemen cum in your mouth when you've told them not to..... I only had it happen one time but it shocked me and I didn't expect it. Usually you can tell when they are getting close but this guy's O snuck up on me and having to spit is nooooooooooot lady like to me... but I had to spit anyway (I only allow Mr Sim to cum in my mouth). ERRRRRRRRR
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User Details are only visible to members.	Okay let's get back to talking about BJ's...:)
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