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TOPIC: the Bottom Line is, Single Males are not Welcome in most Areas
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Hello it has been my experience that the single male is treated like a crap for the most part . I understand that some guys create bad names for the rest of us , but to that point I have had multiple couples that can't form a sentence or hold a conversation but have a laundry list of info they want about me and also so many won't even show a picture and the male half to countless couples try to get together with me behind there wife's back which I will not be a part of. This is supposed to be a social group with open minds. Before we judge one particular group of people we should all look a little closer at ourselves.

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I just started a group, in the process of inviting people, and Singles Males are welcome. I do have a "rule" that for each party the single men need to be invited or recommended. The reason for that is, I have notes on a lot of men in my area that say "Married, playing without wife's knowledge". Yes, I'm sure there are some women doing the same thing, but I'm straight and looking for them so I don't know. If someone wants "warn" (for lack of a better word) of a not-so-single Single Woman, then I would note her too. You can't have an MFM, or a male harem, without the single men ;-)

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I have, but mostly the answer is no.

When I'm travelling for work, I'm usually in town for a week, maybe two. I advertise parties usually a few days before I arrive. When people contact me, we communicate via email, text messages, and phone calls. No one is allowed to attend unless I've spoken to them on the phone. My voice verification calls usually last 30 minute or more, depending on the person. I also require that they send face pics so I can recognize them when they arrive.

Generally, I don't have time to meet everyone in person before a party. I wish I did. So far, everyone who has attended these parties has been pretty cool. It's not a perfect system but it seems to work.

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I've held six hotel parties in different cities. I got laid at four of them. If I had my preference, I'd get laid at every single one but if there's no chemistry then it's not going to happen.

But at one of the two parties where I didn't get laid, I met someone who came back the next night and spent the night with me two nights in a row. So, it all worked out.

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If I host a party, couples are free to sign up but the single males are by invitation only. My group is specifically geared toward couples who WANT extra guys but not 5-1 as M mentioned. Five or six couples plus three to four single guys works well.

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I agree. Some are. Based on what I'm hearing from a lot of people, apparently a lot of them are.

But not all. I've been to enough parties that I know how to conduct myself. And when I host a party, I make sure everyone else is having a good time before I ever consider my own fun. I don't play unless invited.

No means no. A closed door should stay closed.

This stuff isn't that hard to figure out.

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For the record, the only one we've ever had to ask to behave at one of the parties I've been to was a male half of a couple. He was Mr. Touchy-Feely all night and we finally had to get his wife to make him knock it off

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KickenBack, I'd love to!

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My favorite is the "couple" who wants to attend a party but at the last minute "she's stuck at work" or "she's not feeling well" followed by the inevitable "would it be okay if I showed up without her?" It's so transparent.

If you're a single male, just say it. It's jokers like you that make it harder on nice guys like me.

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