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I agree. Some are. Based on what I'm hearing from a lot of people, apparently a lot of them are.

But not all. I've been to enough parties that I know how to conduct myself. And when I host a party, I make sure everyone else is having a good time before I ever consider my own fun. I don't play unless invited.

No means no. A closed door should stay closed.

This stuff isn't that hard to figure out.

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For the record, the only one we've ever had to ask to behave at one of the parties I've been to was a male half of a couple. He was Mr. Touchy-Feely all night and we finally had to get his wife to make him knock it off

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KickenBack, I'd love to!

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My favorite is the "couple" who wants to attend a party but at the last minute "she's stuck at work" or "she's not feeling well" followed by the inevitable "would it be okay if I showed up without her?" It's so transparent.

If you're a single male, just say it. It's jokers like you that make it harder on nice guys like me.

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Also, I must make a note to travel to Salome AZ.....

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Occasionally, I'll host a party for couples and single females. I typically don't open it up to single males beause I'd end up with a dozen males and one or two females. Unless they're interested in a gang bang, I usually try to keep the numbers as close to 50/50 as possible.

Because there are so many bi women and so few bi men, I usually allow for single women as well. That way, the math still works out. I've been lucky to meet some really nice unicorns.

I've been to two different clubs, one in Las Vegas and one in Charlotte, and both allowed single males. Many clubs are extremely selective or they don't allow single males at all. Because I travel so much, I've pretty much given up on clubs that require "memberships." I may not be back in town for six monts to a year and it's not cost effective for me to spend money on memberships that I'll hardly ever use. I only attend the ones that are open to all people and only charge a door fee for the night.

But there are people who welcome single males. Granted, more are looking for singles women and couples but there are quite a few looking for single males. Just keep your eyes open and act like a decent human being and they'll find you.

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I dont have a problem with single men and have never had a problem at parties and events, the houseparties with close friends I attend only allow certain single males who have to be friends and known for some time to the couple or single that asks to bring them, the asshole single males at events and clubs I have either put them in thier place myself or had the management take care of the problem.

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Amen, KickenBack. Parties should let in as many Single Males (or Females) that want to attend.

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He's an AFR

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"There is some hilarious posts in this thread."

They is laying all over the place. :)

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