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TOPIC: the Bottom Line is, Single Males are not Welcome in most Areas
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I just started a group, in the process of inviting people, and Singles Males are welcome. I do have a "rule" that for each party the single men need to be invited or recommended. The reason for that is, I have notes on a lot of men in my area that say "Married, playing without wife's knowledge". Yes, I'm sure there are some women doing the same thing, but I'm straight and looking for them so I don't know. If someone wants "warn" (for lack of a better word) of a not-so-single Single Woman, then I would note her too. You can't have an MFM, or a male harem, without the single men ;-)
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Oh, so you don't meet the people that you invite to your parties, prior to the event?
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I've held six hotel parties in different cities. I got laid at four of them. If I had my preference, I'd get laid at every single one but if there's no chemistry then it's not going to happen.
But at one of the two parties where I didn't get laid, I met someone who came back the next night and spent the night with me two nights in a row. So, it all worked out. |
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If I were a guy who coordinates and hosts parties, there is no way in hell that I wouldn't be getting laid. No way! I don't know how the guys who do this just let others have all the fun while they sit back and either watch or listen to others who are fucking in the other room. It doesn't parse in my brain!
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If I host a party, couples are free to sign up but the single males are by invitation only. My group is specifically geared toward couples who WANT extra guys but not 5-1 as M mentioned. Five or six couples plus three to four single guys works well.
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I agree. Some are. Based on what I'm hearing from a lot of people, apparently a lot of them are.
But not all. I've been to enough parties that I know how to conduct myself. And when I host a party, I make sure everyone else is having a good time before I ever consider my own fun. I don't play unless invited. No means no. A closed door should stay closed. This stuff isn't that hard to figure out. |
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For the record, the only one we've ever had to ask to behave at one of the parties I've been to was a male half of a couple. He was Mr. Touchy-Feely all night and we finally had to get his wife to make him knock it off
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KickenBack, I'd love to!
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Lets try this again:
Party that's open to all, couples, and singles. Couple arrives, and finds themselves surrounded by mostly single males, and some single females, because I assure you, it is the odd and unusual SF who will attend a swing party. If you want men and no one else, I recommend you look into gang bangs where you are the center of attention. |
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TOPIC: the Bottom Line is, Single Males are not Welcome in most Areas
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