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Created by: bruhman Original Starting post for this thread:
I had a woman msg me, only to meet her, and find that out, she's married, not in a happy situation, so she was on here looking otherwise. I had to let her know, I don't swing like that. Besides how do I not know her man isn't suspect, and followed her? I'm not getting shot over someone else's unhappiness. In swinging everything is supposed to be out in the open up front. However you do have men on here that are married, have GF, etc. that are looking to get nookie on the side, or something they are not getting at home. Naturally that is not condoned. However I have come across several women profile that are the same way. They are either unhappily married, want to explore the other side, and are sneaking out to have fun, whether it be 1-on-1, or at swing parties. They are even bold enough to state in their profile they must be discreet as they don't want their hubby to find out. REALLY? C'mon now. Why are they getting the love for stepping out of their boundaries unbeknown of their significant others?

Created by: bruhman
Original Starting post for this thread:

I had a woman msg me, only to meet her, and find that out, she's married, not in a happy situation, so she was on here looking otherwise.  I had to let her know, I don't swing like that.  Besides how do I not know her man isn't suspect, and followed her?  I'm not getting shot over someone else's unhappiness.
In swinging everything is supposed to be out in the open up front.  However you do have men on here that are married, have GF, etc.  that are looking to get nookie on the side, or something they are not getting at home.  Naturally that is not condoned.
However I have come across several women profile that are the same way.  They are either unhappily married, want to explore the other side, and are sneaking out to have fun, whether it be 1-on-1, or at swing parties.  They are even bold enough to state in their profile they must be discreet as they don't want their hubby to find out.  REALLY?  C'mon now.  Why are they getting the love for stepping out of their boundaries unbeknown of their significant others?

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User Details are only visible to members.	LOVE those surreal moments, thanks for sharing Kirby...now about that trip to Ohio....
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User Details are only visible to members.	Ducati, do you honestly thin I give a shit of someone passes judgement on me? I'm not 13.
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User Details are only visible to members.	"I actually ended up giggling it just seemed sort of surreal." Surreal is a term I use a lot when describing this "hobby". Sometimes it seems like a normal "date" with a twist. Go to a woman's house, make out, head to the bedroom, undress her and start licking her, fucking her, having great sex...and then the husband walks in and takes a few pics, kisses his wife and heads back to his den where he has a video feed from the bedroom on his computer. lol Everytime I have a "Dear Penthouse Forum" moment, it seems surreal!
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User Details are only visible to members.	AkronFunTimes " I'm quite capable of judging. I don't establish the norm but I score against it. " I certainly believe that to be true - now when your role gets reversed and their are others judging you, i suspect its not a comfortable or enviable position to be in right? I don't have any issue really with what you say here....just being a little devil advocate on both sides
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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm quite capable of judging. I don't establish the norm but I score against it.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I appreciate your honesty. Mrs Sav
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User Details are only visible to members.	savandwin says: "I hear you loud and clear. You think cheating is acceptable . I say "he protest too loudly" which usually implies guilty. " While I don't condone cheating per se - I will admit I have had many wonderful relationships with married woman, stuck in horrible relationships, and I even was in one myself...... none of these were healthy thriving prosperous relationships that were going anywhere other than falling apart - and not by the actions of the spouse having a relationship outside the marriage.... Going back to what the OP posted.....the lady was married and appears to be upfront when they met (your still vetting).....at that point really no harm was done, and he made his choice.....no problem with that at all......
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User Details are only visible to members.	AkronFunTimes "It's impossible for a normal human being to not judge others. " Crux of the issue maybe? what defines normal and are you really in a position to judge others? odds are you are not :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Guilty I say guilty ! Mrs Sav
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User Details are only visible to members.	me he/she/they were cheats that doesn't make them honest, not so long as they have a spouse at home clueless sitting in the dark. -------------------------------------------------------------------- What if he/she/they left the lights on with a candlestick in the study?
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