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Interestng observation. I don't think it applies to the young man's situation, because he doesn't want a real girlfriend. But I want to respond to you anyway.

It's been my experience that a man who enters the scene as an experienced woman's boyfriend has a huge advantage over an unconnected newbie. If one of my girlfriends brings a guy into the fold, I figure she must see something really good in him and I should look for it. I also want to be nice to him to cultivate my relationship with her. The man with that "endorsement" gets more benefit of the doubt.

However, while it is a leg up, a guy still has to be judged on his own merits. If he's a jerk, having a popular girlfriend won't stop people from noticing. And she'll dump him fast, even if she didn't see it herself.

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Granted, not everyone is the same, and I'm not telling you NOT to try. Just remember that not everyone likes for their social situation to change, and a single swinger, male or female, that suddenly has a steady partner changes the relationship he or she has with the people they swing with. In my experience, women who become a swinger's girlfriend are accepted faster and more sincerely than men who become a swinger's boyfriend.

If you go that route, just know you will have to prove to them that you aren't just with her to get laid by someone else's wife. Unfortunately, most single men that look for girlfriends that swing do it for that reason, so couples and other single women are way more suspicious than if you went it alone...and they are extremely suspicious of single men as a whole because of all the sexual predators, belt notchers, cheating husbands, and mysoginists that try to use swinging as a way to have sex without the work of even finding a "fuck buddy" (aka dickless wonders).

Have fun, stay positive, and don't take this too seriously. Swinging is 70% sex, 30% friedship. If swinging becomes work, it stops being fun. If sex isn't fun, why do it?


 
 
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That's highly unlikely. You will find women who are looking for boyfriends and women who are looking for fuck buddies, but not much in between. Some women will go to a club or party with a fuck buddy sometimes, but you won't likely find one who wants to "explore the scene" with one. Remember, single women don't need you. Not for anything. We can go anywhere we want without a partner.

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Your profile is very funny, but will completely turn off women who are looking for more than some occasional dick (which is most of us). If that is all you are seeking, then it's good to be honest, but if you really want a "partner," re-evaluate.

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