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TOPIC: a vanilla date vs a swingers date for a single male
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When I was a swingle, I tried to date vanilla. But they don't know what to do with a woman who knows what she likes and is comfortable with it. I didn't intend on using SLS as a dating site, but that's what happened.
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kIND I have to totally agree with you. But I have to say I don't think I would know how to have a vanilla date. It's been 32yrs since I have tried to pick up a single woman where "My wife thinks you hot " wasn't a part of the conversation. If something ever happens to her I am so screwed.
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I'm sorry... but there are some perks to vanilla dating. lol...

Sometimes it can lead to finding the most rewarding relationship ('s) of your life...

Sometimes having a best friend at your side can make life and its journey's wonderful.... Sometimes sharing your whole world with someone else that loves you and always has your back can be considered a blessing... Sometimes it is so awesome, you cant even picture your life alone...

And most usually... this would start with dating. ...just sayin ;)
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Hey, you guys need to stop complaining! What is a single swinger girl to do??? I don't even want to try vanilla dating, because if I happen to like a guy, how do I tell him that I would like to do him tonight without him freaking out and getting a case of a limp dick? Or how do I tell him that I like to fuck a married man while his wife is watching and playing with herself? Any advice on that? And yes, now I think that vanillas are boring! I am so spoiled, I'm afraid... Lol!
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good stuff i swung single for several years i agree and feel you pain....when was the last time you were on a vanilla date where the girl asked you so what kinda porn do you like ?

on a swing date she asks you if you have any cute friends.
on a vanilla date she asks you if you have any cute friends (obviously not for the "right" reasons)

on a vanilla date she wants to dance
on a swing date she wants to dance (in a horizontal position)

do vanilla people have a clue HOW boring they are ?
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I FEEL YA ON THIS. I RARELY DO VANILLA DATES ANYMORE. AND WHEN I DO I USUALLY END UP TAKING THEM TO A SWINGERS CLUB(ESCAPE) MOST LIKELY. SWINGERS DATES ARE SO MUCH MORE FUN.
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Vanilla or swinging just play them both the same. Alot of the vanilla girls are just as nasty as all of us swingers they just want to pretend they "good girls" till they get warmed up
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Amen brother. It's tough to pace yourself on a vanilla date after a few swinger dates. "What do you mean you don't want to go back to my place and fuck?" Of course, if this is our biggest problem, life ain't so bad.
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