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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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Yes, it was/is Gwen...

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Amazing!

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Seduction4, believe it or not, there are those husbands whom I think make the whole thing up without the wife's knowledge....LOL. Imagine that, deception on SLS.

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I would tend to agree, Gwen...thank you (I am really hoping that was Gwen that typed that...LOL)

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"they profess a seduction fantasy"

You don't say!

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Damn, Max... one of us is on the wrong coast!

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Sinbach, are you married?

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I am a single male who has been in the lifestyle for a little over 3 years now. Yes, still a newcomer in many ways. I am well aware of where I sit on the SLS food chain and I am not arguing the fact. It is what it is. I have had a couple of very nice encounters one with a couple and one with a married lady playing with permission - yes, I checked thoroughly...LOL I always reply when e-mailed or IM'd and if I promise to be there, I am there. However, more and more I am running into couple profiles where they profess a seduction fantasy with an outside male. Everything is handled through the husband. I have discussed it at length with several including very detailed ideas of where and when and how. Then, the gentleman disappears and never returns another e-mail or IM. I am very respectful of all and understand that feelings and ideas change, but have the decency to tell us so.

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Are these single males single,,, or are they trying ruin it for the real singles.???????????????. Think about it.

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Obviously or so i thought. I was making a generalization.

There are plenty of legitimate people and plenty of times that legitimate reasons come up to have to cancel. We've done it ourselves.

I may sound like one in the forums but we're not hardass jerks.

But we have been doing this long enough to see a pattern and can usually spot when something is bs or not.

Its just a fact that we find most single men do not end up showing.

A phone call with an apology and sounding sincere, would never be a problem for us. But thats rarely the case.

Most of the time its simply cold feet. Which that too is understandable.

But its very frustrating to alter our schedule, make arrangements, shower, shave and get halfway to where we are meeting and get a "i just got called into work" text from someone who is a cashier at walmart.

I have a dozen employees. Try even getting one to answer the phone on their day off let alone drop everything (sex especially) and run into work on 5 minutes notice.

There are exceptions to every thing i wrote. I realize that.

But no doubt i was poking fun at real red flags though.

And were talking "single" men. We are much more inclined to believe couples if they cancel. Which is extremely rare to have happen last minute.

Ive gotten heat for saying we dont automatically exclude cheaters and such. Thats because we dont automatically exclude honesty.......with us......yes they are lying to someone.

Excluding certain groups like cheaters and bi guys in my opinion encourages them to be lezs than truthful. And the fact is those 2 groups make up a very large portion of the people you find on here.

The odds are very dgood if you play with single men, you will likely be with ones who are not sjngle. Me, id rather have that on the table. Have them say, "i cant get away from the wife" instead of "im stuck at work" and 2 hours later they're jerking off on cam cause wifey went to bed finally.

If most single men kept their commitments we wouldnt be having this discussion.

I just pointed out what i believe are the common reasons they dont.

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