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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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NolaFun,

Don't give up on SMs. I have first hand knowledge that there are at least two quality guys in the metro-New Orleans area on SLS...Now, they're a little older, late 40's -early 50's, but you can't put a price on experience and reliability, can you? Just saying... ;-)

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Same here

We have actually had much better luck with the impromptu "one email and come over" ha but thats extremely rare.

Thats where the frustration comes from. The guys disappear or chicken out AFTER all this back and forth for days or weeks. Emailing, texting, chatting, then the last minute back out and you never hear from them again.

We tried a different approach a couple weeks ago. We had a few single guys we were interested in and had plans ourselves to go to a club. So anyone we were talking to, we invited and a few were "on their way"

Not one showed.

Its just online in general. I dont think most have sinister intentions. I think they really do make an account and plan to have fun. But when it comes down to it theyre shy and scared.

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No we use pretty much the same screening process that u described I think the problem is that there are so many married guys on line(not just SLS) That it spoils it for the genuine SG.. It seams everything looks good up to the day of the m/g and then we get the excuse.. I realize what just happened however my wife takes it like there was something wrong with her.. That's why Not that there isn't a few guys that we have met here that wasn't genuine It's just not worth weeding through the rest of them ...Our time is worth more to us..

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Who wouldn't want an old angry single male?

Whitehouse Station NJ
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"opps sorry for the 3 posts server overload."

Dude, it was 4 posts. Math overload.

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Ohh I'm sorry!!!!! Maybe us 30/40yo should lower our standard to a 60someting balding out of shape gezza with little to nothing in his pants so u can come and disappoint!!!!! Dumb ass!!! It's her preference in who she is attracted to...its not our fault that some guys doesn't fit a persons preference...if a couple is looking for a 25yo black guy and u like her pic's u are probley one of the stupid Aholes that would probley send a message and wonder why they don't want to meet.

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OR better yet most 30/ 40 couples are to picky,,, and not follow there own rules. All you do complain about is you can not find what your looking for, no one with the 8 inch good looks age and area. And you wonder why some do not show.you get what you ask for nothin, it is the same with the clubs up here in ont can, no singles unless a couple escorts the single, the singles that do go to these clubs here are from outside sls and other sites. Will couples and single women ever learn i do not think so, the more you demand from sigles the less you will get, mostly no Shows. To some this up the real singles will pay the price, who do show up. Note to the females of this topic and couples have you ever ask a single male out side your area or country who may waant to meet you.????.

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We pretty much gave up meeting single guys from the site!!! Too many excuses, no shows, and pic that are old...We decided this weekend that the only single guys we will consider is the ones that we meet face to face at the LS clubs in our area... The BS just got to deep!!

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OR better yet, to prove if iam single and show up for an event,,, ask benich or mokytag02,,, these ppl are friends that attended events that i attended or cohosted. I tell it like it is,, no bull,,, there is a big problem with singles beening disliked by couples and some single ladies and some will make no bones about it.

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This is what is really happening,, with most if these so called singles,,, they are not singles ,,,but,,part of a couple, whom want no part of singles, they will do whatever to get a single to leave sls or another site's. I know this because on another site, a male who attended a event wanted no part of any singles to attend, an had made note to all who attended that the event should be for couples only, that swinging is for couples only, no singles permitted. This topic is why do singles chicken out,,, my question to all whom responed to this topic ,,,are they really single ,,, NO THEY ARE NOT,,, they are there to cause nothin but shit for US real 'good singles who do show up'.

The best thing a couple can do is find singles as myself who are single is to look at what they have done,,, I have hosted an event in vegas,,, ask anyone there if i am single or not. The truth will aways show.

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