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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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single no show... A friend,Uriah, had a gang bang planned and we4ll worked out, we thought. The only men who showed after accepting were the married men... Go figure...

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TT is right. In our area, there are a ton of single male profiles. Out of those, only about 20% are serious. We tend to meet them through other couples now. One thing we've found, by past experience, is that the serious ones aren't rude and obnoxious, and they'll definitely show up if invited. S

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I, being a single male, haven't been the one to chicken out. Though i can see where ya'll are coming from. I was invited to meet this one couple and then last minute they pulled out saying they were just gong to go out to a club instead. I tried calling them back the next day like we agreed to set up another possible day we could get together, but they never answered theri phone and haven't responded to my email. I'm hoping to have a littel better luck in the future, but i just hate being jerked around.

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single woman here never had a problem... guess i have been lucky :)

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We haven't done many threesomes with single men, but roughly 50% of them do show up, are what they represented themselves to be, and can perform capably and comfortably in a threesome.

We've had only 1 or 2 couples in 10 years who failed to show or cancelled out.

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Shelly, you took words right out of my mouth! My major bitch about most couples is that the man is SO non-assertive that he looks to his wife for permission. With both of us, we're free thinkers and do what we feel is right at the time. Ditto on the couples up here. Although we've found some "special" people, we've met a lot of them where the men were lapdogs (sorry guys, this doesn't apply to everyone, but I'm sure you all have met someone like that). S

Cambridge VT
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I agree. You cannot define all single men as assholes. My current pet peeve are couples actually....the single men have been tons more respectful and sexually a turn on than my married brothers have. Hell, the married men I have encountered act like they can't piss a drop unless their wife is there to hold it. Man, I'm glad Jay is independent and doesn't need my permission to breathe. Shelly

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This is a double sided issue. I can tell you of several occassions where I had a meeting set up with a couple and they were either no-shows, or canceled at the very last minute with no real reason. The problem isn't with guys, girls, or couples...it's with people who aren't serious about meeting others and are all about talking about what they want to do.

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I don't have any respect for people...single or couples , who set something up and then don't show. If you make a firm date you should show up...or have a very good reason why you can't and at the very least notify the other party in advance as to why. Just common courtesy in my book. Jay :

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Ditto here as well!

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