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Jammie,

You don't have to click on the email to read it. They might have read it your letter and said, " You have got to be kidding me!" This way they don't want and email back and hope you just go away. I know we have told some no thank you and then here comes the on slaught of, "But, why's?" Then I hear oh well this musty be the male and is just afraid of another male. People also can see you message look at your profile and say<" Thank you, but not so much!!" Have we played with singles mae and female? YEP, but just not all the time sort as a rare thing. So I don't want to hear the, "texas the men are two insecure to allow another man to lick and suck and please his lady. " Look at your profile and pictures? You have got to be freaking kidding me, beause I know you have emailed us in the past. Why come off with the jealous husband shit?? The single males are so very quick to blame the husband. It sort of takes two when you married to make a decsion. Look you are not even rolling up on a 4 on the 0 to 10(best) scale. So maybe it's the woman as well? Maybe you are not cutting the bill for the womens taste? So the quick easy way out is to bash the husband!! I have agreed to some single males for Shelly. Then again there have far more that she said, "No I don't thinks so." I look for singles for her and out of 20 she will kick back around 18-19 of them. Then when she chats with them and they start to do that same ole shit of telling her how they are going to show her something new it's like,"bye, bye" Most times for us it's when Shelly starts to chat with the sinlge male and finds that the guy is a total loser and passes. Or we come to find out it's a married male playing alone without permission. So we don't do that, not for females or males. So all this crap from single males proclaiming we are the anti-single males blockers is mostly BULLSHIT... For us it's like this; 1. You are not goodlooking for Shelly's taste.. We are picky and that's to bad..

2. Present your self as a safe and secure person. I am not letting my wife just be around and nut case. No date rapes here..

3. Be who you say you are. No cheating spouse, and have pictures.

4. Somebody that can hold a converstation and not be full of himself. FWB are far more better then wham bam thank ..

5. Just plain honest with us. If you can not be honest with us then how the do you want me to trust you with sex? Where you might have something, like HIV,STDs and or anything like that. Yes safe sex is always mentioned, but it is very easy to smear a little fluid on a cut or something as a trasmitttion point.

Yep, this is long and oh well, Just tired of hearing that the husbands are so to blame because the single male can't get laid here. Wait this is a swingers(wife swap ) site right? Sinlges are just human toys that are played with like anyone else here. So don't get pissed if you are the one like in school that always get picked last or not picked at all. JMO

Jay

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I am a single male willing to meet couples and single lady's. However it seams in texas the men are two insecure to allow another man to lick and suck and please his lady. I hate it when people can not at least say no thank you, or ask for emails and never read them, much less respond.

New Braunfels TX
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We have had the same experence. Our playtime is very limited due to work and working on advanced degrees. We agreed to meet a single male and he had my cell #. We arrived early and waited. Two hours later still a no show and no call. If something had come up he could at least have called. Then he pestered us for months wanting another meeting. I kept blocking him but somehow he would get unblocked. That said we have met some very nice single males and had some great times. So they are out there.

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True that! You are absolutely correct, the bad ones (usually married cheaters and not even single men, aint that about a bitch) definately give the entire group a bad reputation.

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Haha stop making me perv his pics at 6:00 in the morning lol. Shell

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I'm with shelly on that one, come knock on my hotel room door would you?

PG

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male who knows could have been both. But by the looks of your pictures they are dumb asses, I do know that much. Shell

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topic should been:

"Why is it that people chicken out"

As many have said it on here it is just not males but females and couples who back out at the last minute with no excuse. Just as allot of wannabe males our on here so are there plenty couples who just love to chat and collect pictures.

as maybe_just_maybe posted in another thread: 'Screen, screen, screen then screen some more'

good advise

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While I think that is a great idea frank, I know my limitions on both my time, of which I seem to have less and less, and my experience which is little at this point. So for now until that would be in my comfort zone I will leave it to others. We have not had a problem meeting others so far and since our "play time" is limited it has worked out so far. Was just trying to point out there are not M&G's everywhere.

PG

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that would be great if there were any around here frank. The only one in the area stopped doing them right about the time we joined sls. So meet and greets are not in the equation for us.

PG

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