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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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I keep trying to give single males the benefits of the doubt, but it seems they are better at hiding behind the screen. I think it comes down more about just how honest they really are about themselves.

RaveN (:~

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WE have meet a couple single men that have followed through and meet us. But there has been a couple of experiences in which they did not meet or just fakes. As a result we have some very strict rules in meeting with single guys.

rules: 1. You get one shot- no show you don't get another shot 2. You leave an e-mail that your not going to be able to make it when your ACTUALLY supposed to be meeting us. Don't bother contacting us again. NOte: our cell phone was given for the just in case. 3. No pics not interested

Very simple rules.

Lansing MI
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Most of us guys feel butterflies when going to a new encounter. We wonder if the woman (if we have never seen her) is not attractive, if this is a scam, perhaps a prostitute (it's happened to me and no, I do not pay for sex), if we won't get along.

It's easy to chicken out in these circumstances. I have never done it myself but did go with some uneasy thoughts before actually meeting the new woman or couple and having a great time.

Cordova TN
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I find it hard to get most people, whether it be couples or single women, to even reply to my messages. I'm not disrespectful when writing, so I am puzzled by that. If I'm interested and write, I intend on going through with things. That would be, if we hit it off when chatting.

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I never chicken out! I love to play. The only time I have to cancel is if something comes up unexpectedly...life happens. It's hard enough scheduling something as it is so to chicken out is crazy, in my mind. As a male i feel honored when a couple invites me into their lives. It's a very special thing and shouldn't be taken lightly. I could go on and on.

North Stonington CT
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We are primarily interested in couples, but over the years we have arranged to meet a handful of single men. Every one showed up. Most were glad they did! :-)

Jim

South Riding VA
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Yeah Phil, but you'd likely just change profile names. LOL

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Corvallis OR
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Yeah, gentlemen are awesome. Shelly


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"That's why I like Military guys. They are trained from the ground up to be gentlemen, think before they speak, and generally carry themselves well. "

DING! Winner!

This would pretty much sum up our only GOOD mfm experiences.

Corvallis OR
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Mischief, I want to be your understudy. Actually, I can relate to the fact about people assuming that a woman is a certain way. When I am in a new environment I tend to be shy for about the first hour (this is why I drink a half a glass of wine before we go lol, so I'm loosened up). I'm not a mean or rude person, but I am a confident female. Just yesterday someone basically told Jay that she does not like me...and I have not met her. Shells


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