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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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I'd say there are two things:

1. Many single males aren't really swingers. They just say they are and try their best to fit in... but when it comes to it, they're scared for some reason or another. You know, "talk the talk, but can't walk the walk".

2. They're only after the pictures and if lucky, the videos too. Many of these "collectors" don't care for meeting and will play along until they have what they want.

There are single women like that too. I've heard many stories.

Me, I used to chicken out a lot, so I know. Back in the 90's when I started using AOL, I'd talk with the very few who would accept me and I'd ruin it by not meeting them. I wanted to be a part of it, but I had so many worries. I found out that it took me a long time to get comfortable enough with the couple and most couples, while not being pushy, weren't wanting to waste their time with me.

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With us, we don't have issues with the men not showing up...our issue is the fact that WE have such busy lives and cannot drop everything at a minute's notice, THEY usually get impatient lol. SNAP! Excuse me for being busy heehee.


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Sometime this past summer we came up with a new policy of not considering any profile that did not have at least one believable certification. Since then we have not been stood up even once. Not to say that no one is any good unless they have certs, just that if someone has certs, the odds are greatly improved that they are genuine.

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Yes it can definately be a challenge and I do agree....its a shame that the fakers, usually married cheaters might I add who are not single in the first place, give the "single" a bad name.


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Nice, glad you had fun Florida!


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Welcome Gator, and hang in there...you'll be an old pro in no time! :)

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LOL ....Phil I would love to here your noise......hehe

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Well yes, Dallas isn't that far away from Austin.


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Lost, just for the record, if we ever meet I hope it's BOTH of you. MFM is sexy as hell, and whether I'm doing or watching or helping, it's all a blast of the highest order. I hope we DO meet sometime! ;)

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yes there are many fantastic singles out here. I think it takes them finding a couple/woman who is experienced in the lifestyle that has the patience to teach them. Since they are vanilla usually like one poster said its their "nature" almost to think that we wish to be wined and dined...as vanilla single women are. But we aren't here to be wined and dined. We are here to have sexual fun. But yes, the block button works well too lol. I usually know within minutes if this guy is possibly a go or a no go....the infamous question comes up..."so...wheres the hubby..." comes up lol.


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