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Well there 4playlovers it's been 775 days since you OP hope your still not having the same results.

I have not chickened out as of yet ! Maybe delayed as 'M' will say :)

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I have chickend out because the whole bi thang has me shaky"

Heehee. All you have to do is from jump be straight with the fact that you will play with the wife but you are not bisexual and he'd better keep his hands and cock off of your body. There is no need for you to be nervous, it is a common misconception that because one is bi they want ALL people of their same gender. My friend who is interested in the ls will not go with Jay and I to the club...why? Because she is afraid of being raped by all of those bi women in the bathroom lol. Because you know, bi women want ALL other women on the planet. Just relax, I doubt he would rape you lol.


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I would have to agree with "valhalen". A lot of single guys out there ruin it for us legit single guys. Why they would go through the trouble of setting up a profile, chit chatting online, agree to a meet and then flake out is beyond me. Plus it's very rude. I make it a point to make every meeting, of course with no expectations. If we don't hit it off, at the very least, I've found some like-minded friends.

If you're ever in in San Diego, look me up and I'll definitely show up. Happy hunting to all.

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Not all SMs are this way, but I think it is true that a majority are pretenders, which gives us all a bad reputation.

Reading through this thread reminds me of one of my experiences. I met a couple on here a few years ago that I chatted with for a while, and then one day the husband e-mailed me and wanted to organize a semi-surprise gangbang for his wife. He said he had 3 or 4 other guys lined up and wanted to add me. Being a good sport I agreed, despite it being well over a 1 hour drive for me on a work night. When I got there, I was the only guy who actually showed up! Suffice it to say that it was a *very* good night in which I was the star, and I ended up having a very good relationship with this couple for several years as a result. Had those other guys shown up, I don't think that would have happened. I also ended up meeting several other couples through them because I had earned a reputation for being dependable. Funny how that works.

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It sounds more like it's the people you are dealing with. I know I've had my fair share of no shows both single females and couples. It would be great if everyone that said they wanted to meet actually showed, but I guess we don't live in a perfect world.

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I have always been able to meet couples or singles when arranged. If I'm running late, at least I have their cell to call and say so. I think those who don't show weren't really swingers, just flakes. I've have several couples who didn't show up either with no calls or emails saying sorry we couldn't make it, just nothing ever again. So this is not just a single male issue but couples and females as well. It's just a sad part of the lifestyle. I find that some are so disrepectful toward others. But what can you do? Just get over it and move on.

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twbandit. hey, you got it right. everybody should expect to see something a lil different than themselves. after all is that what this is all about. Yes, seems this site is for a bunch of dreamer teasers and wannabees. However I keep looking. I did meet one great gal here a long time ago. Maybe it'll happen again... And you Keep it up and enjoy vegas. I will be taking a trip soon as well, but the location is not yet decided, maybe the New England states. Been west and south. think I'll do some northern seafood places... And I'll not be a no show, or cop out at the last minute.

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Just a short note to thank Uriah, and Nyboricua for their trememdous advise on making changes that would increase my chances for meeting folks .... real folks on this site. Here are the results...... Well, it's been 22 days since I made the recommended changes, and I really got to tell ya the action is nearly overwhelming. I sent out 28 more emails to profiles that are seeking the EXACT criteria and category that I fit into. And here is what happened,. 28 mail outs 3 read, 2 answered and 2 no shows when things were set to meet. So I guess it really doesn't matter. I'm thinking it's maybe something in the water around here. looks like big talkers, but no real meet and doers... But thanks any ways. I'll just keep doing this site just for fun grins and giggles, and do the other sites for real skin to skin meets and real live people friends.

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I have a girlfriend and I don't know why any male would chicken out. I would be there in a heart beat to bump and grind! :)

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Uriah, such a good point. And so much so that it's in our profile: No Whiney Men!

We've had good luck with MFMs so far. I generally go for bad boys in a crowd, or at a party, but for true MFM experiences, it seems the "gentleman on the outside/freak when I get you naked" guy works the best! And they can be whatever you want them to be at the time, if they're creative.

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