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You can believe its utter nonsense if you want, but I can think of over a dozen females and couples at this point who contacted me on SLS and when I replied that I was interested they never logged on again, or in some cases they disposed of their account.

I know other swingers who have told me that they have experienced the same thing.

West Virginia is FILLED with what I call "fake swingers" IE people who troll for couples, females and males and when they find somebody up for fun they just can't handle it and drop off the internet.

I spoke to a couple in a neighboring state about this same thing the other night.

Logan WV
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There are a lot of fakes out there.

Years ago, when I got into the lifestyle, I made a committment that I was in it for real. This meant that if the opportunity came up, I was gonna act on it come hell or high water. I'd rather perform with somebody that may not be my cup of tea than I would to dissapoint and get a bad rep in the swinging community.

It works the other way around too. I have been contacted by single females and couples that inquired about hooking up and when I said, "yes, I am interested" I have been stood up, or more frequently, the other party just drops off the face of the internet, LOL. I think there are a lot of people out there who are in love with the idea of being a swinger, but when push comes to shove, they freak out and panic. Single males, single females and couples. They have watched a lot of porn, fantasized about it, but when reality and fantasy interact, they cannot handle it. So they waffle, they pull a no show, or more often, they just stop contacting you. I wish it was not that way, but it is. Life is too short to not do what you want. If you want to swing, go do it.

Logan WV
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Hey well I know plenty of couples that are just this way as well , mostly it seem just the male half, all they seem to want to do is chat about what you would do and what he would want to see & then ask you to open all your pics :)

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easiest way for a single guy to get somewhere in the swinger world is to attend a party that is open to single guys. That is how you network and make friends, and the only thing you have to do is show up, not be pushy, and just go with the flow of things.

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"I can be a level headed nymphomaniac! LOL"

Now my sexy Shell, I know you are much more than that :)

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I can be a level headed nymphomaniac! LOL

Oh boy, If that is not a crock of.... Oh, it's my baby.. You tell em babe.... Just watch for the lighting bolt near the Laptop sexy.. J/K Kisses babe

Jay

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Thank you Tall! That is very kind of you to say. And again, be patient. We have all had bad experiences...you just try and make sure the good outweighs the bad.

and I always thought you were a sexy sex freak :)"

I can be a level headed nymphomaniac! LOL

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"You seem to be a very nice woman and very level headed."

and I always thought you were a sexy sex freak :)

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I am sure glad he showed up lost.You deserve all tghe fun and pleasure you can get.You seem to be a very nice woman and very level headed.You must be ajoy to be with.I think you write excellent posts.You seem to understand most points of view on here wether from a single male, female or a couple. I hope you had a wonderful time last night. tall

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Well I met with my married friend last night. Yes, he showed up in more ways than one lol. So no, not all married men playing alone are cheaters and yes, they do show up.

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