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It's been said a million times, the flakes just make the legitimate SM's look better and more "in demand". I do feel sorry for anyone who gets stood up tho, that part sucks.

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It's funny you mention a "vanilla guy looking to get laid" Nick, because that is how all started out for me. And I met a very genuine couple who were completely open and simply grounded. A few meets later along with a newly introduced couple (at the time) made me change my mindset/outlook, and as a side effect, made me completely embrace our lifestyle. Everyone I have met thus far has been completely amazing, so it would be stupid to remain selfish and vanilla.... Those days are long gone and I couldn't imagine things any different.

I just wish the common single guy wasn't so damned close minded and full of shit. Stick to the dating scene you moron!!

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nic,,, your most likely correct. I know a few fake couples.

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No science behind this hypothesis but my guess is for every 10 "single male" profiles, 5 are actually cheating married guys, 2 are vanilla guys who happen not to be dating anyone at the moment and think the LS is an easy place to get laid (but only want to meet the female alone), 1 is into the idea of swinging but can't quite pull the trigger and 1 is a pic collector which leaves MAYBE 1 legitimate SM out of ten.

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@sweettart - That's how we feel all the time! And we just started a year ago. :(

Not exactly sure why our SM flaked out. We had planned a day, time and place to meet for coffee and then we didn't hear from him for a couple days. Then finally, we get an email saying he changed his mind because we frequent the same places he does and that scared him.

Whatever. Too bad; he was cute.

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Well, next time I'm in Houston we'll have to organize a meet and greet and see if we can improve your luck.

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We held a party on Saturday night. Five couples there including us.

One couple bailed before play started. One couple played for 15 minutes and left. The rest stayed all night.

It doesn't matter if they're SMs, SFs, or couples. PEOPLE are flakes.

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@ Sweettart: that just sucks. Seriously!? I.... I can't fathom that. Perhaps momentum will sway and you'll be part of an 8 person pile up. Wishful thinking, right??

I remember once, this other single guy and I (I can't remember his name) were having fun with two couples (one in which is still talked to today). Suddenly, as were all having fun in the same room, one of the husbands had a freak out moment and took his wife home. Like THAT. So the remaining four of us carried on while thinking what the fuck!? People can be so griffin weird sometimes!!

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Who says he is single, could be one of them married dudes.

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Why the hell would a single dude chicken out?? Sounds like insecurities with things like, say, a dick measuring contest or bloated egos that disappear once reality sets in. It's all in confidence. I've never chickened out with ANYONE. And I'm glad to say that all of the people I've gone on to have fun with have become very good friends. Even the ones from two years ago... THAT speaks volumes.

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