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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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I think the reason they back out is after talking a lot of shit, they know they (a) can't live up to the hype or (b) the dick is whacked. That's why I try not to talk sex because people build up all these expectations and when it goes down and it doesn't jump off then someone is disappointed. Just meet and let it happen. If it doesn't work out, worse case you've made a new friend and move on to the next encounter. This is supposed to be fun!

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Most of the losers who back out never had intentions of meeting in the first place. There are allot of fakes flakes and jerk offs on this site. We have had best luck at house parties and club events. Sometimes I see new people who look scared and out of place. I remember we were like that before. Talking to them dont seem to help. Think maybe it just takes time.

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Being stood-up is never fun no matter when or where or which gender. If you're say to anyone I'll belly up, then commit. If you don't want to belly up, then don't commit.

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I've seen single females not show. Same for couples. People are people regardless of their living situation. Motivations for not showing will run the gambit. However, I've rarely felt as uncomfortable as being on a first meet date with someone that I have NO interest in. Buck up and get through it with kindness and class is the only respectable thing to do. I can see how folks wouldn't want to experience that. Truthfully though, whether it is swinging or vanilla life experiences, it is when we are uncomfortable that we are actually growing, learning and living. Every man dies. Not every man truly lives.

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DaveL33: Don't knock yourself. I am sure you're really fun and not like some who think they are so fucking hot and cute and can't even make a girl cum! Welcome to the Forums!....LOL

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Welcome to the fora Central MA Dood!

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I would not back out! There are a lot of people not looking for single males and a lot of parties that do not include single males. I might not be the best looking guy in the world but I'm fun!! I would never not show up. I won't 'chicken out'! I haven't had the pleasure of trying to meet couples or singles on here. Say hi to me! :)

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Well, never having set up a date with a single guy, I can't speak about other single guys from experience. *chuckle*

I have had a fair amount of flaking by couples, and a lot of flaking from single ladies. It surely is annoying when that happens, but thankfully many haven't flaked.

I have always shown up as planned. I had one occasion where it was kind of nip and tuck for a bit. I was traveling two hours from home and a couple midway on the trip wanted to meet for a get-acquainted coffee date. Neither of us knew each other and they were unwilling to exchange phone numbers, which was of course their privilege. Since I have an air card for my laptop, the plan was that I would chat with them on SLS once I got to their area. Well guess what, I get there (an hour away from home) and realize I'd left my air card at home! I quickly went looking for a wireless connection, found one at a coffee shop and got on-line. Though this delayed things, we did indeed have our coffee date. That's the closest I ever came to missing a date.

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WOW all kinds of new people posting. One of you I will personally say yes he always shows up and can deliver.

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I have no idea why other single males chicken out. I feel if I'm given a chance to meet a great couple I'm going to show. I know that couples sometimes have to get sitters or just make the time available in order to keep the date with the single male and out of respect for the couple the single male should show. If he can't make it he should at least have the common courtesy to call at least a day a head of the day they're supposed to meet so the couple can make other plans.

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