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User Details are only visible to members.	Some men get gun shy after it is all said and done. Some men lie about themselves to get you interested so much so that when it is time to meet, they forgot that they are not 6'2 210 with a six pack abs.. more like 5'6 with a beer keg and dont want you to see them. Some men... well their wives may not let them out to go cheat LOL Some are just assholes that like to play games. or god forbid... is some kid with dads credit card.. It happens Me personally when a meet happens, I am always early and if the couple is late, I just leave.. Seen ur profile, the pics look nice, u think you are too nice looking u scare the poor guys off? LOL
Greendale WI			Username hidden (32 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Amusingly, I seem to be having exactly the opposite experience. I've had at least 4 couples start a dialog with me proposing bringing me in for an MFM, and all of them have just dried up, before we ever met. I can understand the "heat of the moment" decisions that seem less rational the more they get thought about; and I can understand them "casting a wide net", and coming up with someone more appealing to them, than me. But they never sent a message, saying they'd lost interest. Of the two couples who were serious - one had the male listed as straight (and my profile lists straight), and when they finally suggested meeting to play, they said that a condition of meeting was I had to let hubby go down on me. I actually considered bending my rules, but decided that I just wasn't quite that open, yet. The other, was the female playing alone - and initiated playtime with "lets go back to your place", when I've got "I'm unable to host" in my profile. I did bend my rules, that time (and explained to her that I was doing so), as I actually knew my roommate's unpredictable work schedule would have him out during the required interval. (He's too much of a religious prude to understand lifestyle types.) Sure, there was the chance he could come home sick, but some things are worth chancing. My only issue with the continual flaking, is that Tucson is a much more barren lifestyler location than many other cities in Arizona, so I'm rapidly exhausting my prospects. Oh, well... such is life.
Tucson AZ			Username hidden (11 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	although not in the lifestyle anymore , i never had the problem of single men back out... guess i have been lucky, i met some fantastic men on here, and remain friends to this day..
Staten Island NY			Username hidden (438 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I really had a great time at the SILK & SKIN party and very very tired. More tired as usual. Why? I and we all hear how it so hard for single guys (DSGs) in the Lifestyle, especially from them. “I can’t go to this or that event because they don’t let DSGs in” or “I went to a M&G no one event talk to me” or “No one returns my e-mails.” Whaa whaa whaa! SILK & SKIN is one of the friendliest DSG events around since for every female there are at least 2 males. At least 90% of the couples and single females showed, BUT only 25% DSG’s showed. We had a serious cock shortage (so much a husband of one of the ladies, who had something early to do on Sunday and did not go, his wife called him to come over to help the spent men!). I’m not complaining though, playing with 6 hot ladies, 3 of them then twice and one hot sexy babe, three times. So this why I am very tired and sore. Not bad for an old fuck. But this not unusual, I hear from single females, couples, and other organizers of Lifestyle events how DSGs send them allot e-mails how excited to meet/go. Yet they don’t show or meet. I get e-mails from DSGs basically saying how the fuck you do it? Phineas is an old, fat, small dick, pasty white dude they say to themselves. Phineas will now tell all DSG’s one of his secrets of success: I FUCKIN SHOW UP.
Springfield VA			Username hidden (37 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	this is interesting ...because as a Single Male, I've NEVER flaked out on a meet. ...or even cancelled at the last second. But I've had MANY couples do just that, including two this week. I had a initial meet set up for Wed. night (a couple I met here on SLS) ..and when the time came, i was unable to get ahold of either of them...I then went and plugged in my laptop to check my email.....where i found out that he "cuoldn't get out of work" so they had to cancell...but he couldn't have found a few seconds to call and let me know? Had another meet set up for tonight(met this couple here on SLS as well)...this was going to be our 2nd meet...the first was just for drinks and to get to know each other...the meet for tonight was going to for actual play...but, I just checked my email, and lo and behold she's "not feeling well" so they had to cancell . It goes both ways ...couples flake out just as much a single males.
Chicago IL			Username hidden (211 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No idea, but I hear from couples I spent time with that far too many single guys are flakes. I have had great, poositive experiences over the years. I love meeting couples andhaving the lady and her pleasure be the center of attention... and I show up "as advetised"!
Nevada City CA			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I bet it was --- but just thought of you more as a 'cock' girl :)
Baltimore MD			Username hidden (2085 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL! I don't know....if I don't say so myself it was put to pretty good use that night, let me tell you.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I got a better use for your tongue there Shell............ :)
Baltimore MD			Username hidden (2085 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't know you, I don't have a grudge against you and I am not some 23 year old club rat" Well I'm a 37 year old club rat and fucking proud of it baby!! Here is my besty and I at Club Bonham.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

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