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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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ive never chickened out on a meeting or play. i consider it an honor that a couple would like to invite me into their lives. To me its all about having fun and leaving the drama out.
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I have never flaked if I set up a time and place I'm there I'll even cut out of work to make it. Could be that some of the chickens are married and cheating and the wife suddenly changed plans, just a possibility, who wants to miss all the fun I can't wait to start the party
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I've seen it from both sides repeatedly. If I'm invited to something, I GO. If for no other reason to preserve my reputation. I have NEVER flaked out.
BUT in trying to set up things where we were looking for single guys, I've had the worst luck. Seems like 90% fakes or flakes. |
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We only meet singles that have been on a site for a while, have few certs and more then one pics. I know single males have bad rep but we met few good ones.
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Desert Hot Springs CA |
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I know your question is for couples but I can give you some quick tips. Avoid single males with "free" accounts and no face pics. If he is new or has been on for 6 months or more and has no certs, he is probably going to flake.
Yes these are generalizations but all you can go by for now are red flags and these are the most obvious ones. Good luck! |
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Ive been approached a few times by local couples but unfortunately its been at such short notice that I cant meet when they want. I tell them I am open to meeting at another time but they seem miffed and don't respond back after that.I am not able to be at their beck and call just because Im a single guy ..
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Ive been approached a few times by local couples but unfortunately its been at such short notice that I cant meet when they want. I tell them I am open to meeting at another time but they seem miffed and don't respond back after that.I am not able to be at their beck and call just because Im a single guy ..
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Morrisville NY |
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I have never failed to show up at a meeting I said I would be at. I have had others fail to show however. I have also been messaged by singles and couples alike that wanted to arrange something when I had other commitments. Attempts to schedule something at a later date would be ignored, or even when they said next time around they would fail to contact me again, or return e-mails when I tried to get to know them.
There are flakes on every side of the equation. You just deal with it and move on. |
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I've always been leery of the two men, one woman scenario thinking that one of the males wants to get with the other. Some say it's not so but the previous post brings that back to my attention. I have love for everybody and don't care what they want to do but I don't want to fuck with a down-low or bi man....that's just me.
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