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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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So don't lie on your profile. Put your real height and weight... and a current picture. And write a profile that reflects who you are without apology. Don't say you are going to the gym if you are not. And bigger guys don't have to look sloppy either. A t-shirst and sweat pants may be comfortable, but ask a female friend if she would pick you up in that. Just a few cents worth of advice.

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Personally as a single male whose never been contacted and now am getting back into it as an older heavy single male i think its people are already there waiting and if they see you whne you show up and are nothing like your photos they bail without just coming out and saying your, not what we expected. You're too old and fat and fugly. Havnt had that yet but am surprised if anyone contacts much less shows up. lol. good luck to all.

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holy hell where were you when I was in MI a couple months ago???

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Granite. I agree there are flakes in all situations.

Welcome to the forums by the way.

Unfortunately though, single men do tend to "flake" at a much much higher rate than other groups. But they also make up most of the members of a lot of these sites.

In just our personal experience. If we are meeting a couple. They WILL show. If we are meeting a single guy. The odds are very slim that he wont back out at the last minute.

Not saying it to be jerks. We're a couple that WANTS single guys and prefers them over couples. But finding one that will show up, is so much harder than you would think on here.

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Damn! I live in the wrong state!!! Welcome to the forums ;-)

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Its not fair to pose that stance on single males. No matter what your searching for there are going to be stand ups and no shows. That has always been and always will be part of the game. If it bugs you that much then just attend parties and clubs. I enjoy playing with couples the most yet i have been stood up plenty of times. Or the profile that says we return all emails no matter what....yet they dont. Sure i agree its frustrating and can be a knock to your ego. Never allow yourself to doubt who you are or what you have to offer. It just is what it is. Good luck in everyones hunt!

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I cant believe guys would chicken out. If I say Im going to show up then thats what I do.

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Like I keep saying on here. Honesty goes a long way.

We've been at this long enough that we see right through the excuses.

Having to drive grandma to the hospital worked on us the first time. Years later and 10 guys later using that same one....Now we laugh at it

"Getting called into work" Worked the first time. Getting that line for 80% of our planned meetings.....It doesnt work anymore.. If youre an emergency room doctor, we'd believe you. But a cashier at Sears getting called in at 10pm on a sunday? Nah

Now.....If you call us to cancel and say "Hey guys, now that the day is here, Im having second thoughts, Im not so sure Im ready to go through with this"

NO PROBLEM.....Thats honest!!! We would not be mad. And we would gladly spend extra time with you online and not turn down meeting when you felt more comfortable. You would not be added to our "BS Single guy list"

Thats all most ask for.

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The way i see it, should a single recieve an invite to meet a couple or another single ,m&g or play. then not show, i am very sure the word will get around ,the no show not worth there time ,he will pay very hard for the no show. Should you recieve a invite and cannot make it for a just reason,,, then tell your inviter the reason you cannot show. My loonies worth,,, lol.

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I think its just that in real life people are a lot more shy than they think when it comes to stuff like this.

Any random person could come up to me and be like "Hey, can I see your dick?" Id pull it out before giving a second thought to if they were serious. Im just that comfortable. I dont give a moments thought about getting naked in front of other people.

Others however, getting naked and showing your "private parts" to strangers is a BIG thing. So its understandable when its an hour from showtime and they start having second thoughts.

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