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Couples flake out too. One couple, with a dozen certs, once stood me up. They called an hour later to apologize (with a BS excuse) and tried to reschedule. Nope.

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"there is a big problem with single guys".

I agree. They won't come fuck your girlfriend even when you send them a specific invitation to do so.

I hereby publicly repeat the dare and let anyone who reads this thread figure out to whom it is directed.

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I never chickened out. The couples that I meet have brought up the fact that there is a big problem with single guys.

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And unfortunately that 95 percent hampers those of us who are real.

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I just picture most sitting in a dark room in their underwear typing away pulling their dicks chatting while their wife is asleep in the bedroom.

Then the meeting day comes, they come home. Eating at the dinner table with the wife and kids, looking at their watch and thinking "Im supposed to go shower, shave my balls, and meet a couple for sex in an hour" as their wife is taking dessert out of the oven.

Then 6 hours later when we come home after getting stood up, there he is again jerking off on his webcam after wifey went to bed.....Like nothing happened.

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Single males chicken out because 95% are fakes. I am trying to get some men together to help me fuck a friend this Saturday, but the local fakes can't commit. Single males----I dare you to come fuck my good looking friend this Saturday!

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I think this can happen to anyone in the lifestyle regardless of gender or commitment level. What gets the juices going at 1 AM with a Cap'n and Coke in hand may not seem so appealing come date night. I have personally never backed out on a date but have had some buyer's remorse when the pics looked better than what was in front of me. Either way, I always make the best out of the bad situation as you can never have too many friends in the lifestyle.

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Of course you've fortunate meeting people, your a TOTALBABE! ;)

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Being a single guy, make that a busy single guy, who never really had time to explore the Forum, when I saw the heading, “Why is it the single males chicken out,” I decided to read it. During my spare time over the course of two days, I read all the posts, from the first to the last.

To my surprise it wasn’t all single male bashing, but quite a few people mentioned that females and couples also “chicken out” in one fashion or another.

Being straight, I’ve never set up a date with a single male, so I can’t speak knowledgeably about that. But I’ve experienced it with single ladies, and with couples. It’s been the full range of experiences. Some were very interested to meet then suddenly lost interest. Perhaps they later realized we weren’t a match, but didn’t have the fortitude to communicate that. Others would set up an initial get-acquainted meeting without expectations to play, but would call to cancel. I understand something can come up last minute, and I appreciate them letting me know, but when they then disappear off the radar it makes me wonder. Lastly were those who scheduled the get-acquainted meeting, but never called to cancel and never showed up. Like everyone else who experiences this, I find it quite frustrating.

Thankfully, I have met some very nice people, too. The first couple I ever played with was very kind and patient with me, and I really appreciated it. I’ve had the privilege of doing something similar when I helped a new couple feel comfortable playing. I’ve also met other interesting people, single ladies and couples. Yet, unfortunately in my experience, these quality single ladies and couples have been outnumbered by the flakes and no-shows. And yes, count me as one of the single males who has always shown up.

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Kinky

I agree 100%.

As a guy. There are not many things that I wouldn't drop in a heartbeat to have sex. Ill call in sick to work. Ill cancel other plans. Ill reschedule dinner with grandma. Hell, Ill tell friends from out of town that I havent seen in years, that "Im going to have to be late"

Thats me

The notion that guys are horny dogs and always want to screw anything anytime couldnt be further from the reality.

Our experience is exactly the same as yours. Profiles on 2 sites with more incoming email than we can read. A craigslist ad that got 200 responses.

And out of the tons and tons of people we responded back to that we would have met.......Nothing....

We literally manage to play maybe a few times a year. And that usually ends up being chance encounters that just sort of happen.

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