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User Details are only visible to members.	Of course you've fortunate meeting people, your a TOTALBABE! ;)
Memphis TN			Username hidden (796 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hikerdancerguy, welcome to the forums! ;-) I must say I have been very fortunate in meeting people, single males included... But in my experience those who start the conversation with "love your profile, wanna meet?" or something along that line are the ones that will chicken out. Sure they love my profile, I think I provide enough photos for anyone to jerk off to... Lol! When the guy (and I mean a male part of a couple as well) thinks with the other head, it will not work for me. I can tell by the first few emails if they are serious or not. Of course I have to like the profile and pictures first, without that I will not be interested period. No pictures and one line in every section of the profile tells me that the guy or couple are not really serious about meeting people, so I don't bother talking to them, because they probably would not be serious about showing up as well. Couples generally have it easier I think, but it seems like serious males have something useful written, have pictures and certs and they are paid or lifetime members. When you invest your time and money, most likely you are for real and you mean business. I know I do!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1930 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Being a single guy, make that a busy single guy, who never really had time to explore the Forum, when I saw the heading, “Why is it the single males chicken out,” I decided to read it. During my spare time over the course of two days, I read all the posts, from the first to the last. To my surprise it wasn’t all single male bashing, but quite a few people mentioned that females and couples also “chicken out” in one fashion or another. Being straight, I’ve never set up a date with a single male, so I can’t speak knowledgeably about that. But I’ve experienced it with single ladies, and with couples. It’s been the full range of experiences. Some were very interested to meet then suddenly lost interest. Perhaps they later realized we weren’t a match, but didn’t have the fortitude to communicate that. Others would set up an initial get-acquainted meeting without expectations to play, but would call to cancel. I understand something can come up last minute, and I appreciate them letting me know, but when they then disappear off the radar it makes me wonder. Lastly were those who scheduled the get-acquainted meeting, but never called to cancel and never showed up. Like everyone else who experiences this, I find it quite frustrating. Thankfully, I have met some very nice people, too. The first couple I ever played with was very kind and patient with me, and I really appreciated it. I’ve had the privilege of doing something similar when I helped a new couple feel comfortable playing. I’ve also met other interesting people, single ladies and couples. Yet, unfortunately in my experience, these quality single ladies and couples have been outnumbered by the flakes and no-shows. And yes, count me as one of the single males who has always shown up.
Little Creek DE			Username hidden (13 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kinky I agree 100%. As a guy. There are not many things that I wouldn't drop in a heartbeat to have sex. Ill call in sick to work. Ill cancel other plans. Ill reschedule dinner with grandma. Hell, Ill tell friends from out of town that I havent seen in years, that "Im going to have to be late" Thats me The notion that guys are horny dogs and always want to screw anything anytime couldnt be further from the reality. Our experience is exactly the same as yours. Profiles on 2 sites with more incoming email than we can read. A craigslist ad that got 200 responses. And out of the tons and tons of people we responded back to that we would have met.......Nothing.... We literally manage to play maybe a few times a year. And that usually ends up being chance encounters that just sort of happen.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It is funny, reading through this thread that started more than 4 years ago and things don't seem to have changed at all. We decided to do the almost unheard of as a couple and post that we ONLY want single men. We figured we would be bombarded with emails and we were right - but - not ONE of those men have been able to even commit to a meet date, let alone to go so far as to stand us up for one. It has been crazy. We thought for sure we would at least have met with one of them by now and they have responded in droves. But, it is still the same thing as I have read throughout all of these posts, they want to talk dirty and exchange emails - mainly they want to treat us as an interactive porn site. Being webcam models ourselves, we already do this and get paid for it so we aren't interested in doing it on this site. We have both been in this lifestyle for years despite the newness of our profile and really thought this would go differently as we HAVE had fairly decent luck with couples. Guess we will see if anything changes in the months to come. Oh, one other thing to mention, we also have on our profile that we are interested in Bi men as well as straight - guess how many "straight" men have come out of the closet to us? lol
Marion WI			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I also have never chicken out or not show up to get together with couples that do enjoy the pleasures of a single male which finding out now being in the lifestyle for about 7yrs now before as a couple but now single im finding out alot more couples don't even want anything to do with us, Cause it takes one bad single guy to act like a ass to give us goodones a bad name.
Fayetteville NC			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@ mandysteve, just wanted to let you know that I am a truly single woman under 40... And I have a lifetime membership, pictures and certificates to prove it... Lol! And I do show up! Just sayin'... :)
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1930 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	While there are more single men who some make it worse than others, the numbers are even across the board. There are single women who back out as well, even couples, who have 2nd thoughts when comes to meeting, especially newbies. For the couples it's considered cold feet, the women is protecting herself, and for single guys, it's posers. It's unfortunate it happens to anybody. But ask any experienced swinger, there has probably been a time they have been stood up or somebody backed out (ie. car problems, had to work, no babysitter, etc.). Sometimes you never hear from these people again for whatever reason. It's something that in the lifestyle you have to deal with especially in meeting someone in a personal (1-1, 2-1, 2-1) setting.
Athens OH			Username hidden (137 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	All I can say is WOW!! I hear this read this post from a lot of couples and I can not for the life of me understand why single men do not show up or at the very least call. It is such a PITA (pain in the ass), for the sincere one's to prove that we are different from the one's that have ruined it for the single guy. Hang in there and if you ever come to the Chicago area, I promise to show up if contacted!!! Pete
Saint John IN			Username hidden (45 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Old thread I see but it hasnt changed. We have been away from this for about a year and a half and are just getting back into it. We're on 2 sites, have tried multiple times with multiple people to set something up and so far every single one has been a no-show or last minute cancel. With that said, in the past we did have successful meets. So its not every single guy out there. I think a lot of our problem is the age range we like. I think young guys without previous experience tend to get cold feet when they go to leave the computer screen.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

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