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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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Nothing that you are doing wrong. It happens because the vast majority of supposedly single guys on sls are cheating on their wife or gf.

You make a date, set aside an evening, spend time getting ready and the asshole you are supposed to meet never shows, never calls and never even texts. Why? Because the wifey or girlfriend is around and they cannot get away.

But if you are still interested in single guys some things to look out for:

1) any single guy who says they have to be 'discreet' Exactly why does a single guy need to be discreet?

2) any single guy with no pics or poor quality unclear face pics on sls. Or are there singles bars where all the guys wear masks like the Lone Ranger?

3) any single guy who cannot meet you in public for a real date in the evening on a Friday or Saturday night and play afterwards if everyone clicks.

One somewhat effective way of repelling guys who are cheating is to tell guys that you like to take pics of your play. We have had more than one supposedly single guy fade away into the internet ether after we told him that we liked to take pics. Guess visions of the wifey seeing the pics did not make us worth the risk.

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The way we deal with no shows is to meet singles at a LS Club if they are stuped enough to not show up... We can always find others to play with... And stopped playing with married guys 90% of them don't show..

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Because they are fakes,,, knowing they are about to get caught, in all there b.s. witch hurt the real singles. But your age, location, and looks play a big role in meeting others. All you can do is hang in there, there may be someone down the road, one day.

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It called lack of accountability . I run a a vanilla group on the side and I have to constantly deal with no shows, last minute cancellations and lateness.. Depending on the event I spend time scouting locations , dealing with vendors ,writing up the event and then Finally waiting for guest to show up.As a whole people have gotten away from being considerate of others

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Reason they chicken out

1) got a better deal

2) girlfriend or wife decided not to leave for the weekend

3) had to work

4) trolling the site

Either one of these will find you on the outside looking in with me the 1st and the last time you contact me . My time is just as valuable as yours

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Who knows why they chicken out. Maybe making that step from fantasy to real-life is too much of a jump for them. Or maybe they never intended to follow through, and just wanted to get some cheap online thrills.

I do know that I would never chicken out, whether meeting a couple or a single woman. My wife and I don't chicken out when we meet other couples, so why would I chicken out when playing alone?

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AS for what i see,,, Age does make a differents ,,,so does good looks. As for chickening out not this guy.

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Leo

Thats the right attitude to have. Every one of my posts practically could be a cut and paste.

Read profile See if you match Follow the instructions in the profile to contact Get laid.

Most single men think they can leave the first 3 steps out.

If you dont. You will be in the minority and get noticed.

Also. From what I can tell, youre a good looking guy. In my opinion, retake some pics, I think you could do better with that.

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Leo... Hang around in the forums long enough and you will be wishing that transporters have been invented already. Most of the people I want to meet, that I've "met" in the forums, don't live in California and we're on of the biggest states.

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now see Leo is a SM with a good attitude :) way to far away sigh...

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