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Who knows why they chicken out. Maybe making that step from fantasy to real-life is too much of a jump for them. Or maybe they never intended to follow through, and just wanted to get some cheap online thrills.

I do know that I would never chicken out, whether meeting a couple or a single woman. My wife and I don't chicken out when we meet other couples, so why would I chicken out when playing alone?

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AS for what i see,,, Age does make a differents ,,,so does good looks. As for chickening out not this guy.

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Leo

Thats the right attitude to have. Every one of my posts practically could be a cut and paste.

Read profile See if you match Follow the instructions in the profile to contact Get laid.

Most single men think they can leave the first 3 steps out.

If you dont. You will be in the minority and get noticed.

Also. From what I can tell, youre a good looking guy. In my opinion, retake some pics, I think you could do better with that.

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Leo... Hang around in the forums long enough and you will be wishing that transporters have been invented already. Most of the people I want to meet, that I've "met" in the forums, don't live in California and we're on of the biggest states.

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now see Leo is a SM with a good attitude :) way to far away sigh...

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Joey I was basically agreeing with you, especially the mass mailing part.

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Fun. I hope that wasnt how you interpreted my post. Since Im just using 10,000 words to say something that can be said in a few.

You have success on here.

I take it to assume that your success doesnt come from sending out hundreds of one line emails to 20 year olds.

Again, I dont know if youre responding to me.

I read my past posts and I do come across blunt, somewhat arrogant, and really wordy. haha

As a couple. I see how MOST single men approach a couple. So when I see these posts about how "nobody wants single men" I am inclined to say its YOUR fault. Not theirs.

If you are a good looking guy, under 40, send us a personal email, with a picture. No begging involved. Odds are, you could be in our bed pretty quick........If you dont chicken out.

Nothing more to it.

Why most cant do those 2 easy steps is beyond my comprehension. Personal email - Picture

Sure, we wouldnt be interested in everyone. But all the people we automatically delete would do those 2 steps. We would be playing A LOT more often than once every couple months.

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Panhandling in the swing community doesn't work?

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A Single male initiating contact with a couple and basically pleading to get laid, might as well go somewhere else.

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Littleone. There is nothing from your profile, age, or body pic that strikes me that you would strike out 100% of the time.

Its something in your approach. Youre doing it. If in 2 months you sent out 100 emails. Either you spend a huge amount of time on here, or you are just mass mailing.

When couples write profiles, and they put things specific in them. MOST are not kidding.

Did you overlook that they said "face pic in first email?" And not send one? You got deleted

You can tell right from a profile usually, whether or not you will get a response.

I guarantee that you are emailing people that have already told you in their profile they are not interested.

Slow down. Read more. Find people that you fit their criteria. Follow their profile directions. And you will get action on here.

Plenty of examples of single men 40+ on the forums right here who have a lot of success.

Tim

Youre not out of the game yourself. Get some better pics. And do the same thing. Yes, to be blunt. A heavyset older gentleman is going to appeal to a smaller group. So look for that group.

If the couple youre emailing shows a man with a gym body. Youre wasting your time.

But there are plenty of couples who arent gym perfect. And dont require that either. Spend your time on them.

Ive lost 20 lbs since my pic on here. Im now considered a "skinny guy" but honestly I would avoid couples myself who were gym bodied since Im not. Because I know they are getting flooded with emails from guys who are.

I would seek out a few couples who are similar in body to me. And put on my best pitch and Ill get in someones bedroom in a couple days.

Ive done it before. Its worked.

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