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User Details are only visible to members.	1) any single guy who says they have to be 'discreet' Exactly why does a single guy need to be discreet? Actually, discretion has nothing to do with being single or married. Discretion is just that, discretion. For example, if we come across a single guy that brags about his encounters, chances are good we wont hook up with him no matter how much I find him hot. Loose lips and all that jazz (That applies to couples too). It's no one's business what goes on behind closed doors. And no one should have to explain themselves as to why they wish discretion to be exercised. 2) any single guy with no pics or poor quality unclear face pics on sls. Or are there singles bars where all the guys wear masks like the Lone Ranger? Kind of agree, though I don't think that it's an indication that he's married or attached. Just someone that is concerned about privacy. 3) any single guy who cannot meet you in public for a real date in the evening on a Friday or Saturday night and play afterwards if everyone clicks. We played with a single guy, at his place on Wed night because he does the night shift at his company on weekends. I assure you, he was single. One somewhat effective way of repelling guys who are cheating is to tell guys that you like to take pics of your play. We do not allow our pictures to be taken in a play situation. I don't see why that wouldn't apply to singles. This guy/guys are hooking up with you for sex, they have no idea who you are, for all intents and purposes you can be someone who'd publish the pictures in a public domain. How are they to be assured that you wont?
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12285 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	jandact, I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a single guys house for the first meet.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14006 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As difficult as it is to even get a response, you'd better believe I would never chicken out. I'd be looking forward to the meeting all week.
Kingsport TN			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Something else that helps is to tell supposedly single guys that they have to host at their place, not at a hotel. A really single guy should have no problem doing so. A guy with a wife/gf will find excuses why he cannot host at his place. One guy told us his place was too small. Even by NYC standards a bit of a stretch. Another said he was not sure how he would explain us to his neighbors. Hm, a single guy has a couple over as guests and he needs to explain to the neighbors. We even told him that we would put make-up on so that the scarlet 'S' on our foreheads would not be so visible.
Stamford CT			Username hidden (39 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Another Red Flag in single men who are Free Members.... they don't want their wives to find the payment on the credit/debit card account.
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4126 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nothing that you are doing wrong. It happens because the vast majority of supposedly single guys on sls are cheating on their wife or gf. You make a date, set aside an evening, spend time getting ready and the asshole you are supposed to meet never shows, never calls and never even texts. Why? Because the wifey or girlfriend is around and they cannot get away. But if you are still interested in single guys some things to look out for: 1) any single guy who says they have to be 'discreet' Exactly why does a single guy need to be discreet? 2) any single guy with no pics or poor quality unclear face pics on sls. Or are there singles bars where all the guys wear masks like the Lone Ranger? 3) any single guy who cannot meet you in public for a real date in the evening on a Friday or Saturday night and play afterwards if everyone clicks. One somewhat effective way of repelling guys who are cheating is to tell guys that you like to take pics of your play. We have had more than one supposedly single guy fade away into the internet ether after we told him that we liked to take pics. Guess visions of the wifey seeing the pics did not make us worth the risk.
Stamford CT			Username hidden (39 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The way we deal with no shows is to meet singles at a LS Club if they are stuped enough to not show up... We can always find others to play with... And stopped playing with married guys 90% of them don't show..
Covington LA			Username hidden (115 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Because they are fakes,,, knowing they are about to get caught, in all there b.s. witch hurt the real singles. But your age, location, and looks play a big role in meeting others. All you can do is hang in there, there may be someone down the road, one day.
Newmarket Canada			Username hidden (240 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It called lack of accountability . I run a a vanilla group on the side and I have to constantly deal with no shows, last minute cancellations and lateness.. Depending on the event I spend time scouting locations , dealing with vendors ,writing up the event and then Finally waiting for guest to show up.As a whole people have gotten away from being considerate of others
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Not sure why the would no show, why waste your time and theirs. If you talk and agree to meeting show the heck up at least and if the interest isn't there be honest and say so but at least show up. I don't understand it myself.
Tyrone GA			Username hidden (1 post)

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