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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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"My job" - Oh yes, god forbid someone finds out you have sex. That'll get you fired. Unless everyone is a politician.**

You don't have to be a politician nor married to have a morality clause in your work contract. You are simply ignorant of the positions out there that require it. Some people's work is extremely high profile, and they do not have to be politicians.

**"Roommates" - Wife and kids**

While we don't use such dumb excuses, we do not entertain at home. We leave room for others to be of the same mindset. Not everyone is comfortable with bringing strangers that they met into their home.

**"Daytime play" - Wife work days I dont**

I addressed that in a post below. People have different schedules. This is not a give away.

**"Got called into work cant make it" - Wife stayed home tonight I cant get out

"Got stuck at work" - Wife made dinner plans for us **

Non sense, we've had to cancel due to baby sitting issues that came up last minute. And indeed had to cancel because my husband actually did get stuck at work, as above, if it can happened to us, why can't it happened to others, single or married?

"no call no show" - Oh wow, Im really going to have to get naked with these ppl? Yikes!**

We've had no show and no call from couples, quite a few times. People are people, manners and all that is sometimes a foreign concept. In another case we got stood up because they actually got into a car accident to meet us. I hated that I didn't believe them, because it turned out to be true.

Singles are no different than married couples. Unfortunately, there is no way to weed them out. You just go with it. As to us? in each case, we always have a back-up plant, and the fact that we meet them in NYC is wonderful. We wind up having a blast regardless.

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Discretion - Dont call or text me, my wife might see

"My job" - Oh yes, god forbid someone finds out you have sex. That'll get you fired. Unless everyone is a politician.

"Roommates" - Wife and kids

"Roommates alternate" - Parents

"Daytime play" - Wife work days I dont

"Got called into work cant make it" - Wife stayed home tonight I cant get out

"Got stuck at work" - Wife made dinner plans for us

"Email only" - Wife gets the phone bill

"no call no show" - Oh wow, Im really going to have to get naked with these ppl? Yikes!

Then the others:

I blew my load thinking about it now im not horny. I was horny a week ago but now Im not feeling it. I dont really match my pics Im not really 9.5 inches I cant "go for hours" Im not an "oral god" I really do have to play with the guy part of the bi couple

And overall regardless of the "common reputation" guys are like most people. Most are not as straight up and able to have "sex on demand" and "always ready to fuck" like you commonly think. They can be just as shy and nervous as anyone else.

I know even me, being experienced, and not a shy person. Playing as a single, I still would get that rush and bit of anxiety when it went from talking about it to, "Im getting showered and have to meet them at 7"

There were times I would have to push back my initial anxiety and thought to cancel to go through with it.

And im not a newbie. So I imagine for guys who have never done it before, its not as easy.

I think thats the number one thing honestly. Once it becomes "real" it can be intimidating.

I just wish more were honest about it and didnt make up BS. I/we would never get mad at or exclude someone who just said "Guys, now that the time is here, Im not sure Im ready"

Instead of telling us you got mandated to come into work at 11 pm as a waiter at Cracker Barrel.

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It's definitely not easy, is it?

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some day maybe I will get to Memphis...

But not to sound whiny or anything but I don't know why it is so hard to find a single male within a reasonable distance from me...

PG

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Pg, there's a single guy in Memphis.

Memphis TN
 
 
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playfull friends who are bi?

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yeah I know I deny you a DVP and you lose all interest in me, I see how you are....

PG

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SHHHH PG, then I won't be able to perv, I mean read their profile.

IF you do hide from single males, anyone you email and they reply to your email can view your profile.

*Furiously composing an email interesting enough for them to respond...

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you can correspond with them by sending them an message on here without having to keep your profile open to them.

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I was being facetious. Most couples I see have similar wording in their profiles and I understand the reasoning completely. You will find I am far from the whiny SM's you describe at the end of your profile and wished you lived closer so that I might have the opportunity to prove that to you.

;^D

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