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TOPIC: Why_is_it_the_single_males_chicken_out
Created by: 4playlovers
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It makes no sense to me at all when I read about single men being so mistreated.. even though they really are in the forums. I am really starting to believe there is no such thing as a single male that will meet us! Maybe it is us...

Look, we rarely seek singles in the lifestyle but when we do the females are far more likely to show than the males! Who would have thunk... 4 years in the lifestyle, we may have courted 10 to 12 single males and not one has done what they say they were going to do... SHOW UP FOR THE FIRST DATE! Much less even call to say they were lost or late or something.

Now we have courted two single females and both not only did show up but we hit it off very well.

This is not a desperation plea as we do find a way to meet some great people on the site but we are so darn puzzled by what we expected to be the opposite in this lifestyle!

We welcome your thoughts and tips on what we may be doing wrong...

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WT8.. Makes one go Hmm doesn't it.. we see so many BS artists on SLS now... some just stand out over others... why don't they bother writing a better profile to explain the Lifestyle they are in...

Woodstock GA
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@twintip - You're supposedly a couple, but have a single male profile? I suppose that's better than a single male having a couples profile. (We see that a lot.)

Wailuku HI
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At the house party we went to last night there were 15 couples 6 unicorns and 20 single males. seemed like everyone had a good night. not everyone played but a few of them were new to the scene and just there to meet and greet. And that is what I suggest to all of you SM, go to a party and meet some people, smile, be polite, chew your food with your mouth closed and wear clean underwear (like you mom told you) just in case you have an accident.

Buffalo NY
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those kinda guys ruin it for everyone.the single guys n the ppl that have had bad a experience with a flakey single guy.ppl have to remember not all ppl are like that. just sayin! have a great day.

Vancouver WA
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Interesting, looking back the SM's who showed up for an introduction were truly single. The ones who did not were Married pretending to be single always had excuses. One great way we discovered to help discern between the two. Ask the SM to meet for a drink on a Sunday night at 8:00 for a first time introduction. Married SM will have a difficult time getting away from family at that hour, single SM will have nothing going on and will gladly meet you at that odd time

Grand Rapids MI
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So just a follow up.... met with a single dude this week (yay, no last minute excuses!) He showed up stoned as F. Now we are 420 friendly but seriously, how are you going to give a good first impression high......... we will not be inviting him back.

Monroe WI
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I could tell you, but that's for me to know and others to find out , what I know, and do not know.

Bradford Canada
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Just wondering how many of the single men that post here often whining about how bad the OTHER single men make them look, realize that they come across as "whiny" and "poor me" themselves when they complain and blame their lack of success on the actions or inactions of other males.

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One couple that I agreed to meet after email and chatting, when I got on the phone with her, sounded completely drunk. So I told her that it was probably not going to work out and backed out. Another time I backed out last second because the Husband texted me 10 minutes before saying "it was a surprise and she didn't know".

Cary NC
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I think the problem is most of those so called single men are really not single, just scared, or looking for a cheap thrill. There the ones that make it hard for the sm such as myself and others that are true and serious about the lifestyle that are not here just for sex, but actually friend and the relationship that could be built. We're the ones that get overlooked and no response behind there immature acts, and gives us real sm a bad name in a lifestyle that's already hard for us. Just my two sense and opinion

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