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TOPIC: Why is it the single males chicken out
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As a single male in the lifestyle for the past 4 years, I hear this complaint a lot from couples I meet. I only play with couples and have met some wonderful couples, couples I would call friends. Stories of single guys not showing up are repeated time and time again. I have even read e-mail threads between couples I play with and single men that don't show up and I'll be damned if I could sense any reason for them not showing.

There are several reasons I could throw out there: One is they are not really single or they are only in it for the hunt or most likely they just chicken out. Worried about not being able to perform or weirded out at the last minute.

I was introduced to the lifestyle by a couple that I met at an upscale hotel bar in Boston. After a few drinks and some great conversation the husband invited me to join him and his wife. Of course I jumped at the chance. I will say, getting in the elevator on the way to their room, I did start thinking, "OMG, I am going to have sex with this guys wife". Am I cool with that? Then after a few more minutes talking with them I realized, they INVITED me. This is what they wanted. Once I realized that and the fact that I am a big exhibitionist and voyeur, I was hooked...

Bottom line, if we click on the phone and there is a physical attraction, I always show up, early.... :)

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Couldn't have summed it up any better Secret.

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Had that happen to me just last week at an event....he was a no show and was the one that really wanted to go! Had all kinds of dates lined up for him too....oh well....he's toast ;-)

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2fun,,, if a single or couple want you to play they will make contact,,, if the single backs out or chickens out he is toast . this also goes for the couples, and single women,,, my two cents worth.

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No Arkronfuntimes ,,, i am not and never will be.

Newmarket Canada
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Yes, it was/is Gwen...

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Amazing!

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Seduction4, believe it or not, there are those husbands whom I think make the whole thing up without the wife's knowledge....LOL. Imagine that, deception on SLS.

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I would tend to agree, Gwen...thank you (I am really hoping that was Gwen that typed that...LOL)

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"they profess a seduction fantasy"

You don't say!

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