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User Details are only visible to members.	The reason a lot of single males chicken out is because it's easy to have confidence behind computer screen. Not so much in person. Also if you think about it, there are a lot of men who have issues when it comes to sexuality. They will look for anyway to get off and for some the e-mails and the thought of playing is enough to do it. Saw a true life tv shows not long ago where one man tried to have sex with a camp stove. I guess they really do plump when when you cook them, he had to have the blood drained to get it out. You have to realize that unfortunately because of the ease of access, we have every type of perv you can think of on this site.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To poster kind if i could delete the posts i would . Why is it the single males chicken out ,,, two reason's #1 they are fake, #2 most likey married males out to cause some shit for the singles males. Just saying .
Newmarket Canada			Username hidden (241 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	NolaFun, Don't give up on SMs. I have first hand knowledge that there are at least two quality guys in the metro-New Orleans area on SLS...Now, they're a little older, late 40's -early 50's, but you can't put a price on experience and reliability, can you? Just saying... ;-)
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (4162 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Same here We have actually had much better luck with the impromptu "one email and come over" ha but thats extremely rare. Thats where the frustration comes from. The guys disappear or chicken out AFTER all this back and forth for days or weeks. Emailing, texting, chatting, then the last minute back out and you never hear from them again. We tried a different approach a couple weeks ago. We had a few single guys we were interested in and had plans ourselves to go to a club. So anyone we were talking to, we invited and a few were "on their way" Not one showed. Its just online in general. I dont think most have sinister intentions. I think they really do make an account and plan to have fun. But when it comes down to it theyre shy and scared.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No we use pretty much the same screening process that u described I think the problem is that there are so many married guys on line(not just SLS) That it spoils it for the genuine SG.. It seams everything looks good up to the day of the m/g and then we get the excuse.. I realize what just happened however my wife takes it like there was something wrong with her.. That's why Not that there isn't a few guys that we have met here that wasn't genuine It's just not worth weeding through the rest of them ...Our time is worth more to us..
Covington LA			Username hidden (115 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nice3rd, welcome to the forums! We've been very lucky, I guess. None have chickened out. Hubby always sets it up, and we usually have several e-mails plus a chat on the phone before the first meet. Some requirements: They're not new to swinging. Not married (we try to vet as best we can). Have at least one recent cert. No play on first meet. This has worked extremely well for us. For those of you where the guy doesn't show up, is it impromptu...one email then let's meet tonight sort of thing? Kat
Morgantown PA			Username hidden (2965 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"opps sorry for the 3 posts server overload." ---- you can delete 1 or 2 or 3 of them if you'd like.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Who wouldn't want an old angry single male?
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"opps sorry for the 3 posts server overload." Dude, it was 4 posts. Math overload.
Belle Chasse LA			Username hidden (8678 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ohh I'm sorry!!!!! Maybe us 30/40yo should lower our standard to a 60someting balding out of shape gezza with little to nothing in his pants so u can come and disappoint!!!!! Dumb ass!!! It's her preference in who she is attracted to...its not our fault that some guys doesn't fit a persons preference...if a couple is looking for a 25yo black guy and u like her pic's u are probley one of the stupid Aholes that would probley send a message and wonder why they don't want to meet.
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