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Hmm... Come to think of it, how do you define a nice guy when your interaction is just for a few hours? Anyone can act nice for a few hours. Who knows what that person is in real life?

I always say, unless you spend 24 hours over a significant period of time, its very hard to know who's what.

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Amen to that Tim. I'm a nice guy, but I'll say it like it is and be assertive if necessary. That's gotten me very far here. I'm merely being myself.

I think that quote stems from letting people walk all over you for being too phony. E.G. pretending too much.

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It's been my experience that nice guys stay rather busy....

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My husband is one of the nicest guys I know... and my son is being raised as one as well. We tell him that Nice Guys are winners before the game even starts!

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As Green Day said it "Nice Guys Finish Last".

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Nic,

Easily more than 5/10 supposedly single guys who are married or attached. We always ask 'why is a good looking guy like you unattached' and get some laughable replies at about the same time that they say they 'prefer' to meet/play during the day. Even funnier are those who we ask if they can host at their place and some replies have been 'my place is too small' 'how would I explain who you were to my neighbors (as in wife lol)' 'I have neighbors and the walls are thin so they would hear your lady' as though a single guy has to ever worry about that.

Comical but after the comedic relief really tiring.

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I haven't had much of a problem lately with no-shows. Of course that could be because I haven't set up a meet with a local SM in several years. No one has sparked my interest enough to do so.

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It's been said a million times, the flakes just make the legitimate SM's look better and more "in demand". I do feel sorry for anyone who gets stood up tho, that part sucks.

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It's funny you mention a "vanilla guy looking to get laid" Nick, because that is how all started out for me. And I met a very genuine couple who were completely open and simply grounded. A few meets later along with a newly introduced couple (at the time) made me change my mindset/outlook, and as a side effect, made me completely embrace our lifestyle. Everyone I have met thus far has been completely amazing, so it would be stupid to remain selfish and vanilla.... Those days are long gone and I couldn't imagine things any different.

I just wish the common single guy wasn't so damned close minded and full of shit. Stick to the dating scene you moron!!

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nic,,, your most likely correct. I know a few fake couples.

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