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I am definitely looking for a long term partner, and will not meet a man 1:1 unless he might have potential. I also meet people on this and other sites who end up being friends, getting invited to my parties, etc. Indeed, a lot of the "near misses" have become pretty good friends...or they are dating my girlfriends.

Vanilla dating sites are pretty damned useless for someone like me. My late husband and I were swingers for 14 years, I've been very active as a single, and I need a fellow pervert. A vanilla guy isn't going to "get it," and isn't going to be able to handle the sort of open. polyamorous relationship I want.

I am fully aware that a majority of the single guys on this and similar sites are not looking for a relationship. However, quite a few are open to it, at least on the terms I'm interested in. I'm not going to find what I'm looking for on match - dot - com. I'm not the only one, either. A lot of my girlfriends are also looking for partners...although that doesn't stop any of us from having a hell of a lot of fun along the way.

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Flirty,

It is still because they want a swing partner, just on they can love also.

Carrie

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Well, if I was single and looking for a patner to swing with, where else would I look? I can see how well that would go over on a dating site. I know I wouldn't look there if I was single.

Carrie

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Phil, I see your point, but you indicate in your profile that you're looking for couples or single females.

The ones I see are *only* looking for single females.

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Hi Flirty, you have given me some great advice in the forums in the past. Just saying hi, and I agree with you on this one! Nate

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I have had several single ladies contact me on SLS and elsewhere for the purpose of a swing relationship (i.e, we are friends with sex as the primary common interest). Neither one of us is interested in developing a long term relationship. Only one lady has contacted me for the purpose of being a potential boyfriend (and yes, I believe she ended up leaving the site).

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It's amazing the number of single men who sign up on SLS looking for a single female.

Of course, in a month when their free membership runs out, surprise, surprise, most of them aren't on the site anymore.

But still . . . .

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