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User Details are only visible to members.	Right on, nib!
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think that if you are a single that is honestly looking for a life partner that is into this lifestyle or are a man or woman that was once with a partner and you were both into this lifestyle and then for some reason one of you has left the relationship and you are now looking for a partner with whom is open minded enough to continue on in this lifestyle as a swinging couple then this is deffinitely the place that you need to be! However, If you are purposefully trying to decieve others by making up fake profiles and cheating on your signifficant other by setting up a profile on this or any other swing site without their knowledge then you need to be identified to techie and everybody on this site needs to be aware of your profile so that you can be avoided like the plague because you as a cheating spouse are of no use to anyone with any amount of respect for their spouse or what this lifestyle is all about. Sorry, just my opinion.
Dayton OH			Username hidden (814 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Why do some think it is a dating site? Pretty simple and logical...... Cause we get lots of playmates from here regardless if we are married or single silly! Now if you aren't, that's either your choice or your problem. LOL! Personally, I'm sure enjoying the hell out of myself sweetie! Now, should I get lucky enough to find the male of my dreams then what a lucky Unicorn I am huh? BTW: lots of those free months have run out and guess what? They are still here. YAAY! OMG! Some are even paid and certified. What's the world coming to? Raven ( :~
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To me, the answer to the original query is very obvious, and several of the women on here have already said it: If an individual (of either sex) knows they only want a relationship within the lifestyle, what better place to look than singles already within the lifestyle? That's a no-brainer, right? You're already going to speak the same language. You may not have the same things to say, but you can understand one another. Not that it can't be found with someone from a vanilla dating site, but it's going to involve a lot more of a culling process there. When I first got on a vanilla dating website, I read through a bunch of profiles of both sexes before deciding what to write in my own profile. By and large, here's what I found (paraphrasing added by me): Women: Looking for Prince Charming, with white horse, and a glass slipper in just my size. Men: I'm Prince Charming, and I've got a glass slipper in just your size The amount of bullshit was palpable! And when I read the women's profiles, it seemed like a huge indictment of our culture, that even well into adulthood, and after a marriage or two, most women still had this vastly overromanticised vision of what relationships are all about, with a huge chasm between that vision and relationship reality. The women on here and within the lifestyle in general are much more on the same wavelength, not to mention planet, as myself. Why spend time with kindergarten kids, when you can have a Rhodes Scholar?
Port Orange FL			Username hidden (54 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Gentleman-slut-dog-partner is rarer than a unicorn. Good luck looking. My favorite Gentleman-dog just moved to Florida last month. I hope he comes back to town soon. sigh. Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Gentleman-slut-dog-partner, that 's a good title for the job description, LOL. Just want to add that of course swinging is primarily a couple thing and gets its core identity from couples who play openly with others. Singles are a much bigger presence than when i started, but a room full of singles wouldn't feel like a swingers' party to me.
Springfield VA			Username hidden (263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If I was looking for a gentleman-slut-dog partner, I would be perving all the swing and BDSM sites. Mostly, I would be hitting clubs and parties. My resume' isn't the kind of thing a straight, monogamous, possessive, male wants the hear. I have found all but one of my perv partners in swing clubs. Hell, I met my husband (of 21 years) at a sex party. I can see it now. "I really enjoy your company. I would like to continue to get to know you. I need to let you know.... you are NOT the only one...gasp. I have a female life partner, several non-local gentleman partners. However, I would really enjoy getting to know you better." yada, yada. Then comes the thousand questions...Just like Flirtyways said. Can I do your gf? You go to parties and do WHAT? You have bruises and you LIKE THEM? You don't come home every night!$*! You want to play separate while I'm at home?$%#^? The list goes on. They are out there. I know. I've found them. Quality, male, gentlemen, dogs, who know how to "hold on loosely but not let go." Mischief (nose to ground looking for more)
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Flirtyways, Thanks for staying non-judgemental. I hope you don't think I'm trying to disrespect you, or any other single or couple on this site; I'm not. The question that you asked, I think, is, "does the term 'swinging' apply mainly to coulples." As I thought about it, I had to say, "yes." My thoughts are complete in the other forum. That does not mean that you are not swinging, or that you wouldn't be welcome in swinging. It's just a term, nothing more. If you are having fun, I say go ahead and do it. You're not a bad person, it doesn't make you a good person, you're just a person that's doing something. I really don't care what you call it. I wish you the best!
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Flirties, you've raised an issue that is very interesting, but (IMHO) goes beyond this forum. So I've created a topic in the Open Forum entitled 'What Is Swinging.' You can see my (hopefully very respectful) thoughts over there.
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Flirtyways- I just act naturally, ignore the "couples" mentality completely, and I have more swing friends than I can handle. The nice thing is that they come to me.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (856 post)

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