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TOPIC: Why do some men lie about penis size
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Why do some lie,,, simple,,, most profiles demand well hung guys. So some will say hey, we are here now let go for it, some will some not.

Bradford Canada
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Your right Joey. I've seen a lot of profiles where the pics were taken way back in kinder years, lol. Just keep them up to date.


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There is just no reason to lie about anything. THEY ARE GOING TO SEE YOU NAKED!!!!!!

Its like weight. 300 lbs IS NOT 240lbs or age 40 is not 31

its pathetic the emails we get that the picture clearly shows someone that is in their mid to late 40's, yet they say theyre 29 or 32.

Like we're not going to notice if we meet?

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Absolutely Fax. I've never lied about what's under the towel. That's a recipe for disaster.


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No lies. Never lie. If you get with someone, all will be revealed, anyway. We're both very up-front in our profile about our physical characteristics. I think honesty is important, especially if you're looking for something more than providing a disappointing one-time fuck.

S & J

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I wanted to also mention that, just because a man goes limp, that doesn't mean that we instantly pack up the show and leave. I do try, if given the chance, to get things going again. What we have run into though, is that usually HE is the one that ends things there because he is embarrassed, or, because he realizes that the alcohol or , as hikerdancerguy mentioned, that he knows he won't get over what is going on in his head during the session. Fortunately, when given the chance for a repeat performance, most of the men are much more comfortable the second time we play - it is getting them to be willing to try that can be tricky.

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A lot of good reasons have already been given. It seems to me two other reasons may be a lack of self-acceptance, and not having learned how to expertly use what they have. Being comfortable in ones own skin, and being confident in ones abilities takes care of so much.

I also found the comment on staying hard to be interesting. As the example given in a previous post illustrates, rather often the problem can be in our heads (mind). In a whole different direction, I find it hard to remain hard when I need to go pee! *grin*

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I don't scratch... much.

Visalia CA
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You hit the nail on the head (pun intended) when you said the confident men don't have a problem... and to me, that's part of knowing how to use what they have ;-)

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I think that the most important aspect of a penis is the ability to get hard and then stay hard. It doesn't matter to me how average, bigger than or lesser than if it doesn't want to step up to the plate. Now, understandably, there are going to be times that other things factor in, everything from shyness to alchohol or sometimes the chemistry just isn't there. However, if there is a repeated performance issue then size just doesn't matter, no matter how well you know how to use the tool. This has been the one issue we have run into but I will tell you why it happens most often with us. In speaking of size, Ryan is fairly well endowed, and, we can go from the 4 of us having a fun session until Ryan pulls it out and then, whoops! the other guy sees it and the erection has left the building (the other guy's, not Ryan's in case that didn't seem clear) This has been a problem that we haven't figured out how to prevent yet. It doesn't happen with the confident guys or the ones that have been in the lifestyle for awhile, usually, mostly with the shy ones or newbies to the LS. The men that are on par with Ryan don't seem to have a problem either. We have learned to try and get that info (his size) out into conversation in some way and sometimes send pics if it seems appropriate. I am not talking about huge, just over 8 inches, but for some reason that really lets the "fun" out of the party when they see it for the first, or even the second time. We have learned that we need to stay away from shyer or newer couples for this reason and it is a real shame because we know we are missing out on some pretty cool people. So, for us, size has never been the issue (after all, I can get "large" whenever I want at home) it has been that little problem of standing at attention that we have run into. I don't care about the size of the toy as much as I care about getting to play with the toy! If anyone has any other advice we would love to hear it.

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