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TOPIC: Where are the athletic single women
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I want a family, I want to always have fun.
I have many options outside the swinging lifestyle but if a woman isnt interested in the lifestyle I will not "introduce" her to it. I want to meet the sporty, athletic type woman IN the lifestyle or at least curious about it to see if its possible to "have it all". Whatever that truly means because I know many NOT in the lifestyle that "have it al"l also. |
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It seems to me that there wouldn't be any harm in telling a vanilla woman about your lifestyle early in your dating, not necessarily on the first date. If she isn't receptive to it, she isn't the right lady for you.
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As a SM, I've had quite a bit of fun with the vanilla ladies. Several of them know I'm in the lifestyle and they ask a bunch of questions about it. They're curious, and some want to explore it to see if it would work for them.
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Thats pretty weak considering how many men bring in women just for them to discover that it isnt what they are looking for and then crush the guy that tried to "bring them in". Do you just start the conversation like "HEY BABE MY NAME IS DAN AND I WANT YOU TO DO OTHER PEOPLE"? I believe friendship is more important than the lifestyle and most women I talk to only want 1 intimate person and get jealous immediately when other women find me attractive. I would rather find one that already knows what to expect and feel.
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LOL Indeed Athlete, the same issue stands the same in the state of Connecticut. It just makes the adventure more interesting due to all of the looking you have to do. Best wishes!!
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Thanks for the response PA.
The distance issue is what I keep running into especially in Michigan. All other ladies that are fit, healthy and have hobbies live everywhere else. |
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I am one...although geographic distance is a factor! We are rare, but we are here.
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I want a family, I want to always have fun.
I have many options outside the swinging lifestyle but if a woman isnt interested in the lifestyle I will not "introduce" her to it. I want to meet the sporty, athletic type woman IN the lifestyle or at least curious about it to see if its possible to "have it all". Whatever that truly means because I know many NOT in the lifestyle that "have it al"l also. |
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TOPIC: Where are the athletic single women
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