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Created by: nakedathlete Original Starting post for this thread:
I want a family, I want to always have fun. I have many options outside the swinging lifestyle but if a woman isnt interested in the lifestyle I will not "introduce" her to it. I want to meet the sporty, athletic type woman IN the lifestyle or at least curious about it to see if its possible to "have it all". Whatever that truly means because I know many NOT in the lifestyle that "have it al"l also.

Created by: nakedathlete
Original Starting post for this thread:

I want a family, I want to always have fun.

I have many options outside the swinging lifestyle but if a woman isnt interested in the lifestyle I will not "introduce" her to it. I want to meet the sporty, athletic type woman IN the lifestyle or at least curious about it to see if its possible to "have it all". Whatever that truly means because I know many NOT in the lifestyle that "have it al"l also.

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User Details are only visible to members.	FunLoversMP- I have to disagree with your post. I started in the lifestyle when I was 21.I met a woman via vanilla channels. I had a relationship with her, discovered she was bi and I thought that we could make the relationship and the lifestyle work. Nope. I have met women in the lifestyle and we attempted relationships. Our relationships ended for reasons other than the lifestyle and we are all still in the lifestyle. If the lifestyle is important to you seek your partner there. You wouldn't stand outside the Weight Watchers line to find your next marathon partner would you?
Southaven MS			Username hidden (13 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It seems to me that there wouldn't be any harm in telling a vanilla woman about your lifestyle early in your dating, not necessarily on the first date. If she isn't receptive to it, she isn't the right lady for you.
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4141 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As a SM, I've had quite a bit of fun with the vanilla ladies. Several of them know I'm in the lifestyle and they ask a bunch of questions about it. They're curious, and some want to explore it to see if it would work for them.
Garner NC			Username hidden (3572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Funlovers MP has it so right, surpisingly there are women who may want to be in the lifestyle but dont know how too approach it and are concerned about how others will view them. I have it all LOL My wife apporached me with the idea of MFM many moons ago and I was down from day one. Now we discussed this for years before we had our first experience. We researched it, ran into couples that went to highschool with us, relatives and co workers who all were apart of the lifestyle and that was around 2003. Ask yourself whats more important? The lifestyle or the woman of your dreams, hopefully if you do find someone special outside the life she may be open to it as time goes on. Good luck
Fairburn GA			Username hidden (54 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thats pretty weak considering how many men bring in women just for them to discover that it isnt what they are looking for and then crush the guy that tried to "bring them in". Do you just start the conversation like "HEY BABE MY NAME IS DAN AND I WANT YOU TO DO OTHER PEOPLE"? I believe friendship is more important than the lifestyle and most women I talk to only want 1 intimate person and get jealous immediately when other women find me attractive. I would rather find one that already knows what to expect and feel.
Livonia MI			Username hidden (43 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This is the eternal topic, which keeps coming up time and again... I've said it before... to find single (or swinging as a single) hot women, guys don't look in the lifestyle. Look elsewhere. There are MANY 'curious' women, dying to get into the lifestyle but not knowing how or with whom. Your challenge, guys, is to DISCOVER them. Before I got into the lifestyle (as a swinger) for quite some time, I was curious and desirous until I met a guy at a bar and we slept twice and then he took me to a club... Oh, God... I was hooked for life! I'm no longer with him, have been with many other guys since then, but always remember him as the guy who opened the door for me... Michelle
Sekiu WA			Username hidden (161 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL Indeed Athlete, the same issue stands the same in the state of Connecticut. It just makes the adventure more interesting due to all of the looking you have to do. Best wishes!!
Milford CT			Username hidden (42 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for the response PA. The distance issue is what I keep running into especially in Michigan. All other ladies that are fit, healthy and have hobbies live everywhere else.
Livonia MI			Username hidden (43 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am one...although geographic distance is a factor! We are rare, but we are here.
New York NY			Username hidden (19 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I want a family, I want to always have fun. I have many options outside the swinging lifestyle but if a woman isnt interested in the lifestyle I will not "introduce" her to it. I want to meet the sporty, athletic type woman IN the lifestyle or at least curious about it to see if its possible to "have it all". Whatever that truly means because I know many NOT in the lifestyle that "have it al"l also.
Livonia MI			Username hidden (43 post)

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