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TOPIC: What single guys need to know about playing with couples
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I have couples and singles (male and females) bring me flowers all the time. I also take flowers to the wife/single fems on first dates. It's a courtesy hun and always warmly accepted. I don't give roses, cept occasionally for those who are my favs.
When I date a single male, I'm not impressed if I don't see flowers. I definitely won't say anything, but the thought stays in the back of my head. I keep fresh flowers in my home all the time (: |
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Yes but your not married, in this case read this post below,
so very important to set the ground rules. I always ask the husband if he would be ok with me bring flowers- once again it is not meant as a sign of love, just respect. If the husband said it be ok I understand & wouldn't have a problem with it ! |
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"FLOWERS" who the hell brings flowers over for a mfm maybe a six pack, but I couldn't see anyone bringing flowers especially for a 1st or 2nd meeting !
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The key to successful swing relationships is finding a middle ground between (i) complete relational disattachment, and (ii) emotional dependence. Not everyone can do that!
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It's not uncommon for me to bring the wife flowers at meet and greets. I keep it simple though and usually just a single yellow rose or peppermint carnation. Makes for a nice icebreaker in a non-pressured atmosphere.
When I have a date with another Unicorn, I most likely will bring flowers. I've had couples bring me flowers too. I never felt threatened (or being a threat) by it. RaveN (:~ |
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I’ve had two cases when the woman wanted to play without her husband present, and one case where the husband wanted to play without the wife present.
I’ve said no in all three cases, I’ve met them as a couple and that is the way it will stay, if the other spouse is there and wants to just watch the next time then that’s fine. I’m not going behind any spouse’s back. 9 out of 10 times my wife is present anyway. |
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If we had invited a single man for play. then flowers start showing up and such, that single guy and I are going to have some very serious issues. That's why we don't entertain them. They go behind the husbands back. This is why we borrow husbands from couple friends we have. I don't care what color the flowers are. |
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