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TOPIC: What's the difference
Created by: fe26mike
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I had another one of my "scratch my head" conversations today with someone. You know those conversations that make you want to ask "what are you smoking".

I sent a message to a single female profile that I was interested in, and had the following conversation.

"I'm not looking for single guys, because most of them aren't really single...they just say they are so they can get some side action."

Not all singles guys are like that. I can't speak for all guys, but I know that I really am single. What are you looking for? Your profile doesn't really say what type of people you're looking for.

"I'm looking for single girls and couples for my bf and I to play with."

I thought your profile said you were a single female. Why don't you list as a couple?

"Because I thought it would be easier to find women and couples if they thought I was single."

Ok...so there's a difference between guys in relationships posting as single, and women in a relationship posting as single...?

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Being intentionally deceptive is not a good way to start a relationship of any kind.

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The "single girls" are a major PIA and time waster once you find out they are a couple. They should be flagged

N Charleston SC
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I agree with that, it is decietful.

Burlingham NY
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I know a few couples who have both a couple and singles profiles, and on the singles profiles list that they are in an open relationship, allowed to play alone, and list their couple profile. I don't have any problem with that. It just bugs me the people who misrepresent themselves...be it as listing as a couple when they are really a single, or listing as a single, when they are really in a relationship.

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No your not wrong with thinking that either way is a screwed up way to go about finding people to play with. We knew of 2 couples, who in the past listed as just the female so they could attract just females and most times it was the hubby's that was on. By thier logic everyone else was wrong, go figure . Good luck

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I had another one of my "scratch my head" conversations today with someone. You know those conversations that make you want to ask "what are you smoking".

I sent a message to a single female profile that I was interested in, and had the following conversation.

"I'm not looking for single guys, because most of them aren't really single...they just say they are so they can get some side action."

Not all singles guys are like that. I can't speak for all guys, but I know that I really am single. What are you looking for? Your profile doesn't really say what type of people you're looking for.

"I'm looking for single girls and couples for my bf and I to play with."

I thought your profile said you were a single female. Why don't you list as a couple?

"Because I thought it would be easier to find women and couples if they thought I was single."

Ok...so there's a difference between guys in relationships posting as single, and women in a relationship posting as single...?

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