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TOPIC: WHY MARRIED MEN CHEAT AND POST AS SINGLES
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Well, maybe for some unhappy souls there is "drama." And I agree, one should stay away from those... The lifestyle is a fun life and it should be kept that way... No drama.

But I can tell you that many of us married or coupled women who play freely with some frequency love it and find it fun and carefree. My feeling is that it should be practice in the open and not undisclosed to your main partner. So there is no 'cheating.'

I've always been open both ways, with my main partner (in my case it's my hubby) and with the guys I play with. Some are married, some single. Whether the married ones tell their spouses and what is their relationship status is none of my business and I just don't ask. I don't really care. While we are together on a date, club, weekend, etc., we are there to have hot fun and enjoy each other. And yes, I've some boyfriends (guys I date regularly) who are married but as long as they are free to be with me without outside interference, I'm totally guiltless.

Maybe you don't feel like that because you feel that your hubby could be having a romantic and sexual relationship with one of 'us' behind your back (cheating you). That's not the ideal situation, of course. He should be open with you and you with him about lovers and playmates.

Michelle

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For us married women playing single fall in the same category as married men playing alone. We stay away from them. Not interested in the potential drama.

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That's not nice to say...

I'm married and a couple but because of my job I'm now away on the West Coast... and what am I suppose to do? Become a virgin? Or frigid?

Hell, no. Since April I've enjoyed my new freedom and lifestyle to the fullest and yes I love every minute of it... Oh, God, I've never have had as much or as hot sex as I'm having now. I play with both single and married guys, don't care as long as they are hot and available to play. I have several boyfriends with whom I've a more intimate relationship on top of the sexual fun.

Hey, it's a fun life for me now. I'm just praying that it may not end too soon... lol... lol... It would be hard for me to go back East but I'll cross that bridge when I get to it...

Michelle

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So married men posing as singles BAD, right? Married women posing as singles GOOD...hmmmmmm.

I have ran into many married single females who are posing as singles or false couples.

But I guess they have the pussy, and everyone wants the pussy.

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If you are married, say so. Those people who think that kind of thing matters will want to know. Honesty is the best policy in all parts of your life. Frankly, no one gives a damn about the details of your personal life unless you want them to be lifelong friends. You could lie about your age, your weight or other things and it all just makes you untrustworthy and is very telling about your character. Who wants to have sex with someone they can't trust?

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i DON'T THINK IT'S EXCLUSIVE TO MARRIED MEN. I see alot of women in the area on here i knwo are married and cheating on this site.

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No excuse. You and your wife need to get help. Find out why she's no long interested in sex. You stated work, but 5 twelve hour shifts isn't the reason. She either is not interested in you or she's got low sexual desire (chemical or biological). You BOTH need to explore what the cause is. If you truly want a long term relationship then you need to be honest about what you need in the relationship and she needs to be honest in what she needs in the relationship. If you two can come to an understanding then you need to end the relationship. It's that simple.

Don't trick others into being associated with indirectly hurting your wife.

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Nah, she was frigid because she was frigid. The guy she dated before me warned me she was frigid and the guy who she hooked up after me complained about the same thing.

I have been to the Galt House too.

Scotty, you don't have me fooled with all these sarcastic remarks. Obviously you are fixating on me and I have caused you to become bi curious and inflamed with lust for a big ole Hillbilly in some kind of deliverance fantasy... You should have just sent a private message... Thanks but no thanks....

LOL - Just teasing man, I am sure you will get the joke. Have a good day bro

Jake.

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she was frigid because you think the radisson and the hilton are nice hotels.

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I was in a relationship with a woman for three years who I loved very much, but who was basicaly frigid.

We lived about 300 miles apart and saw each other often at hotels in Lexington, Kentucky and Ashland.

In time, I got fed up with the frigidity. Whats the point of taking time off work, going to a nice place like the Raddison or the Hilton, getting a hot tub and watching pro-wrestling on the television?

Now, I could have messed around behind her back, but I did what I felt was right. I told her what my problem was and I split up and went back to swinging.

If a couple is not sexually compatible, its damn near impossible to have a good relationship.

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