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User Details are only visible to members.	Are you uncut? If you are uncut perhaps this is the reason. You taste as bad as an arm pit and butt hole combined; bad. Those Jews figured out a very long time ago: If they wanted their wives to perform oral sex they had to throw away the putz. I know a couple of fully grown males who suffered through getting the procedure done as adults because of this. Or if you are cut; how is your hygiene? You know that when you dated you made sure you were well scrubbed and clean. How is your hygiene now?
Tulare CA			Username hidden (1881 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Too many excuses for your bad behavior. You get points for sharing household duties but you lose points for not being honest in your marriage, Lifestyle is not an out let to cheat. It's is an outlet to share. Your match or adult ff are your go to cheat sites. You need to make time in your marriage to find out what made your marriage so great in the 1st place . Seek help. Learn how to budget your time. You know from what I am reading you need to brush up on your foreplay skills. It's not just about you and what you want . Sometime it's about what she needs . Lots of times trust me on this one it's not about your dick. Be as thoughtful with your intimacy skills as you are with sharing household chores. Good Luck.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (92 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To all the married men who say they need more than what they get at home...please consider this ..your wife may want more too..but just not the same "MORE" that you want. You may just want more animalistic pounding lifestyle is great sex...but she may want more tlc and you make me cum so hard sex..if you love her as you say, try to please her more often so she actually loves having sex with you. Even at swing parties..try pleasing the women who are pleasing you!!
Woodland Hills CA			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Why do some people cheat? Maybe the sex was great a long time ago and now it sux really bad. Maybe a quickie once a month. She cums in a minute and you are left to jerk off while she rolls over. She doesn't even finish you off or watch. Yes, you (I) love her dearly and don't want to leave (kids, love, money, whatever) but 2 minutes of lovemaking a month doesn't cut it. You've tried to talk, be romantic, vacations, jewelery, clothes, etc but nothing works. I am a sexy handsome succesful man not some teenage kid who is gonna jerk off in the bathroom every day. So, why should someone stand by and not get laid. You only live once. Should I divorce my wife cause she has mental issues. I clearly think someone who survives on two minutes of sex a month has issues. Can't leave someone cause of that. As for this site, I have never met anyone because they all think I am a cheating douche bag. If you talked to me and heard my story you would think I am a fuckin saint. But that doesn't matter cause I do alright in real life hooking up. So judge me or him or them but don't think for a minute that its wrong in all situations. If I didn't get any on the side then I would be divorced, broke and not the loving father to my kids who I spend many many hours with every single day and night. Thanks for reading my rant.
Port Jefferson Station NY			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just want to answer the original "lehman2" posting... Guy if you have such a great loving wife such as you describe in your initial posting you are a FOOL not to give yourself to her and nurture that wonderful love... She says you are all she needs... You are crazy if you don't reciprocate... sex is not everything in life and in a situation like yours... keep that wonderful, loving woman and make her happy... forget about the lifestyle if she does not feel like it... OK? Be patient and giving. Good luck with your relationship! Well, I know, who am I to say these things??? But when I see a situation like yours, I feel that you two are not ready at all for the lifestyle and that it would mess you up. Michelle PS: would you like to play with someone like me on the side to 'relieve' your pentup sexual energy? Then you'll feel relaxed to cuddle your loving wife. I surely wouldn't mind playing with you, not for a relationship but just for the sex. Of course the question is rethorical and I'm not asking you out, but this type of solution might work for you and might keep your good marriage intact.
Sekiu WA			Username hidden (161 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Love the discussion, but for us this one's not tricky. There are lots of potentially rationalizable reasons for wanting to stay married but go outside your marriage for sex. You can even say it's a purer love than just abandoning your frigid/inaccessible spouse altogether. There are probably even some cases where that might be true. But for most of us in the lifestyle, that means making your marriage complete with "dietary supplements". Swinging in our experiences never fixes marriages that are broken for whatever reason. Playing in the lifestyle outside your marriage may seem like a way to relieve a bad sexual situation, but it's not. It's side-stepping the issue just as much as having an affair is. Don't rationalize why it should be OK - go to counselling with your spouse (yeah, it's a hard thing to do - harder than creating a profile) and find a way to make things whole honestly. Hats off to you for not just divorcing over the sexual aspect of your relationship which truly is secondary to kids, friendship, and love, but anyone still doing this behind their spouse's back is not dealing with whatever issues they have honestly.
Hopkinton MA			Username hidden (256 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL ringmaster...
Windermere FL			Username hidden (2502 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Two separate times in two days I posted a long detailed post about my experience in cheating and being cheated on....BOTH times the SLS gods ate it. I guess I was not supposed to write it....lol So here is the Cliff noted version: Cheating bad Honesty good Karma pays dividends-sometimes VERY quickly If you care about her health then SUPPORT HER EVEN IF YOU LEAVE...(what's so hard about figuring that out?) Get on with your life and die a happy satisfied person some day Feel free to ask questions....please raise your hand first!
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I didn't want to go the whole sickenss and health route because Some people don't like that part of the vows.....LOL I agree Whole heartedly about abstaining when either of us had medical issues in the past. I didn't just marry her for her Ass, Pussy and mouth . There are times I am just as happy that we are together even if sex isn't in the cards for the moment. Maybe my values are a bit warped.
Burlingham NY			Username hidden (9215 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My husband has health issues. We have gone without sex for a long time because of it. I was recently in an accident , again we did not have sex for a while because of health issues. Would I ever cheat on my husband if was not able to have sex again? Not on your life. I would never go behind his back. We were married for better for worse, in sickness and in health. I enjoy swinging because we do it TOGETHER. We would not do it any other way. Some couples do play alone, BUT with their significant others approval. I am sure they feel the same way about going behind their s/o's back. Cheating is cheating.
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