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User Details are only visible to members.	Yeah, now number one I do try and see both sides of the story. But there is in my book no excuse for cheating. Of course, easy for me to say I suppose. But one of the reasons why Jay and I do this is because we ARE honest with each other, and choose not to do such things. I do not want to be the other woman, and the last thing I need is an angry wife calling me because I banged her husband. Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Those are the ones who don't go far in the lifestyle. Asking everyone to be a part of hurting someone else in accepting your drama is not what the lifestyle is about. Cheating and lying is not character strengths I find appealing.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There's something terribly wrong with people who are engaged in an alternative lifestyle that is not accepted by a majority of the population and who think it is perfectly OK to judge others who engage in practices that they think are "morally" wrong. Please bury your trash in your own back yard. Thanks
Altadena CA			Username hidden (20 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	wow the grease is really hot in this one...if u don't have a wife that is willing to enjoy swinging with you then you have chosen very wrong indeed, honesty from day one is how this works true that mens nature is to chase and inseminate as many as possible, but a real man can control his inner animal...honesty will get you everywhere but no morals will get you rocks...duck now.
Port Orchard WA			Username hidden (89 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I tell you this. You have read my post about my recent experience with Mr. Single who turned out to be Mr. Married LOL. Fellas: If you are doing this PLEASE be honest from jump!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That way I know from the beginning and you don't waste my frickin time. Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Cumback & Scorpio make good points. If your wife is not interested in you then your marriage has problems and you should spend your time repairing your marriage instead of shopping for a bj. My wife and I have been separated most of this year and I would gladly trade my experiences here for another chance with her. There is a reason why the cliche' "you do not know what you had, until you no longer have it" is so popular.
Collegeville PA			Username hidden (124 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ya think? ROFLMACUAO!
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lehman, Welcum to the forums My only advice is that if you feel you need to dishonor and hurt her, go ahead and be an as*hole cheater! If you are that unhappy, seek a divorce and hurt her less. If you do not want a divorce, seek a marriage counselor. This is not a cheaters site as many cheaters wish it was. The lifestyle is NOT about cheating whatsoever! And yes, it is the "marrieds" that are cheating cause true single's don't have a partner to cheat on. We are called single's for a reason, ya know?
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	By depriving you of sexual gratification, your wife is not holding up to her end of the marriage. You say that you don't want to hurt her feelings because you love her, but here is a news flash. SHE HAS NO PROBLEM HURTING YOUR FEELINGS!! She denies you oral sex and limits your sex without giving you a vote. It can get worse...I know. My ex went from being a bisexual nympho to being celibate for the last 2 years of our marriage (and I never cheated, so I have no sympathy for you if you do). Maybe you should stop helping around the house and see if that gets her attention. Go out with your male friends, and develop your own interests (which should not include shopping for sex on this site...lol) It's sad, but she no longer sees you as a challenge. Your marriage is in worse shape than you realize and it is your fault. You are suffering from "Nice Guy Syndrome". Please read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy". You don't want the confrontation of telling your wife that she is not satisfying you, because it may hurt her feelings. But if she finds out what you are doing (shopping for sex outside your marriage)....it is going to be WAY worse for both of you. Plus she will ruin your life in a divorce. She'll take your kids and your money. Don't think so? If she gave a rat's ass about your feelings she would suck your dick every now and then. Oh and couples in the lifestyle are VERY wary of troubled marriages. Even if your wife agreed to swing with you, most couples will figure out that she is not really into it, and they will stay far away from your bad marriage karma. Happily married couples want NO PARTS of a troubled marriage. They fear it may be contagious! Bottom line - be honest, go ahead and hurt her feelings. She is coming up short in the sex department and should be told.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I don't know about every guy out there but for me it's easier than the alternative. I'm a mwm that doesn't get what I need at home. I hate to generalize but the running joke about oral sex stopping after marriage is true at my home, and we don't have sex as often as we used too. We both work alot and time is limited. you may say that if you have time to cheat then you have time to play at home. Well that is true but both need to want it for it to work. I help out around the house as much as I can, I do the shopping and the cooking. Plus I work 60 hrs a week. She does the cleaning and paying the bills and she works 5 12hr days too. I swing shifts and she works days, so that adds to the mess. I love her and don't want to leave. I've talked to her about the swinging lifestyle and all she does is cry and tell me that I'm all she needs an isn't she all I need? Well how the hell do you answer that truthfully with out hurting her? So there you go ppl who think cheating husbands are all just sick bastards, understand that there are some loving husbands out there that just need more than they are getting at home, and that want to stay with their wives because they love them not because their afraid of divorce. I don't want a divorce, hell she makes more than me and money isn't the problem. It's the lack of nooky lol
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